This^You do realize stating something as a fact doesn't make it so, correct?
I've had guns all my life and my son and wife has had access to them all their lives. Since no one has ever died, MY guns are apparently incapable of killing anyone. That is the 'logic' you are using.
Everything in bold above is nothing more than wishful thinking. I get it and I'm sorry for your loss. But you have lost any objectivity you may have had prior.