it's the refusal to set it up in pm that makes me suspicious...i've done phone deals before because it was convenient and had no issues, i've done phone deals that the buyers wanted to renegotiate at the meet, or took their time showing up or didn't show up...just trying to avoid wasting my time...
I am definately more relaxed based on feedback... Obviously the higher the feedback the more relaxed I am... but also I only buy. I have never sold on ODT...!