My full-time job is training people in the use of firearms.... w/ a slight majority being ladies.
In most cases the negatives outweigh the positives when it comes to loading .357 rounds vs..38+p's..
.357's have tremendous recoil & muzzleblast plus w/ such a short barrel & a lightweight gun. There is not as much velocity gain since the extra powder is burnt outside the barrel resulting in greater muzzleflash & muzzleflip.
Three of my most recent female students shooting a snubnose LCR w/ .38's experienced a bruised palm & sore hands after shooting a few cylinders full out of it while others went as bothered by it.
Shooting full powered .357's is a different story.
Slower followup shots, more tendency to flinch, etc.
A good 38+p hollowpoint load is usually the best compromise between controllability & stopping power in a snubnose small enough to carry.
Would this not depend on the weight? OP did not say she only wanted a light weight.
