Ok, so I'll give a hypothetical to illustrate what I'm trying to ask. You're *somewhere*, and some dude, lets just say for arguments sake, slaps your girl on the ass (a la those two boxer dudes), and you say something to him, yall start arguing and it escalates. If the guy has a gun in his waist, at what point can you claim self defense/life in danger and actually unholster your own gun? When he flashes it in his wasitband, or when he actually unholsters it? I couldn't find anything related to this question so here I am. So yea, in this hypothetical at what point is your life considered, by law, in danger? Thanks!