caught my girlfriend cheating

[Lynn2216]

Women like her are always looking for "daddy" with more money. Be glad you found out now before you had kids with it.

 

[Constitution Hour]

Yep, that sucks but can't trust her now. Not much of a friend either. Tough to do but gotta walk away man.

 

[Billrube]

I understand you are hurt, but: You are not married so it was not cheating. She exercised her freedom. You should exercise yours and put her in your rear view mirror. Be glad you were not married when this happened.

 

[dakota port]

leave if you put up with the cheating now it might happen again

 

[linebacker]

IMO---Man up, get the engagement ring back and tell her that this is unforgiveable right now and she has to GO. Sacrifices will have to be made by both of you. But, try to stay stay civil with her concerning the kids. If they do it once, more than likely they will do it again. After she is out, invite one of her single friends over and make her scream your name, then immediately tell her to leave.
After she leaves, drink a sixpack of your favorite beverage while watching The Three Stooges marathon on AMC and be done with it.

Move on brother, Best wishes.

 

[TheSnail]

In the wise words from myself: I may not hit a b*tch, but Ill shake a hoe.

 

[Dwayne5174]

You are not Married to her sorry ass and the kids are not yours . Leave while you can . If she is banging one of your so called best friends then she is nothing to you and neither should he be . leave them both and dont ever look back . If she did it this time with someone that was close to you then she will for sure do it again down the road . Take the ring back and get to steppin on down the road . Live is to short to be with a cheater .

 

[GC Josh]

She does it once, she will do it again. Save yourself the trouble of going through it again and part ways.

Cash in the ring for guns and ammo and an expensive bottle of liquor....ride like the wind..

Been there long ago and this is the best advice... Run! Don't walk and never look back.
Sad about kids being involved but it isn't worth the butt ache to work it out or go forward with it.
Give your ex- buddy (sounds like he never really was a buddy but more of a buddy Fk'r) a bottle of Tylenol and thank him.... She's HIS headache now!

Dude, as horrible as you feel right now--walk away!

You *caught* her cheating on you with your boss! I'm not married, but even I know that trust is incredibly important in any real relationship. Maybe she's just a dumb girl who can't control her urges, maybe she was 'seduced' but you just cannot trust her. Imagine if you took her back, or had married her. Imagine in two years when you caught her in bed with another man, she files for divorce, gets alimony, child support, and half of everything you owned, even if it's half of your retirement account?

Walk away. If not, you're legitimizing her behavior. And also--cheaters are cheaters. Look at Hollywood. That vampire girl, she cheated on her boyfriend with Robert Pattinson or whatever his name was--then was sleeping with the director, who was married and twice her age.

Seriously, you could never trust her again. Replace her, and find a good woman you can have your OWN kids with, if you want some.

There's already a wealth of good information here, so there's no point in giving you a long spill on what I think you should do.
I know right now, after being with someone for so long, it seems impossible to consider splitting up. Someone previously stated that "time heals all" and that's the truth when someone has wronged you like this.
In the end, you'll be MUCH happier you split.
Good luck man, keep your head up. It'll only get better from here.

 

[Barton72]

Add me to the list of people telling you to GTFO NOW!! Wash yourself free of anything to do with her!! Like someone already said, she'll do it again. Especially if she knows she can get caught and get a free pass. Move on, she already has!!!! Respect yourself and put it all behind you. Best of luck.

 

[blazedawg87]

Run ***** run!!!! Slap the b**** and chug a beer!