payne I'm so sorry to hear this. I lost my stepfather to cancer so years ago and its a terrible thing. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
Paynefree, so very sorry to hear about your sister. My family will be praying for your sister, her son, and the rest of her family. I am just terribly sorry to hear this tragic story.
So sorry man. Been there too with my sis a few years ago (right before Christmas as well). If you can muster up the strength to give a bit of a eulogy when the time comes, I believe it helps a lot for your own peace of mind and everyone else who loved her. It's very tough to do, and you won't get through it without breaking down, but it's a nice final gift you can give her. My prayers are with you buddy.