Jesus, what a cunt.
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Getting a Divorce ... any Advice?
- Thread starter reklawd
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You and her will be fine. The children will be the ones to suffer. My first wife left 20+ years ago for someone else. My now 37 year old son still has problems with relationships and will probably never marry. It’s never good.
Right now my 8yo daughter is losing friends because she yells at them. But it is not as bad as that sentence sounds. She yells when she doesn't get what she wants. Still not as bad. She doesn't get what she wants after giving the friend what they want. She lets them pick the game, they play for 15 minutes, then it is her turn. But the little girls where I live don't play her game. Or they pick another game that is not equitable. And as the oldest who is driven, but also an empath that follows Jesus, this pisses her the **** off. She shares a room with her sister. She knows how to share. We just hang out with a bunch of selfish people with selfish kids. Just like stupid people have stupid kids. Then there is my partner, who feeds into the emotions instead of teaching her how to overcome them.
But now we are starting to get into the issues, so I'll stop. My daughter is in therapy now, but what she really needs better parenting and a better environment. It is why the D is worth it. I could have stuck it out for myself. It is the "for the kids" which is why I'm doing it. But it ain't staying together for them.. the opposite. It is me trying to show them a better way ... a way that my now partner does not want to live.
Here is the kicker, where God has a sense of humor. This part of the message will self destruct. I married a cute but cubby redhead. "**** the 10's, but marry a 7" is what I was taught She's probs a 6 ... ,,, all her local friends are smoking hot tall woman, mainly blonde, married to rich type A dudes. That is her support network. So she is thinking like an entitled smoke show right now, and that is not who I thought I married at all. I out kicked my coverage at work, but I stayed in my lane when it comes to partners, yet I enabled her to build a life I don't want to be a part of. I married a lazy procrastinating narcissist and enabler her. She was raised by narcissist and her father was an enabler who was the HMFIC for bulding the Blue Ocean launch pad in FL. He ran offices for Turner Construction. My MIL didn't get a toothbrush until she was 13. My wife's grandmother should be on TLC hoarders. My FIL paid all her bills. His son is 35, lives with mom, and has never kissed a girl even though he has an $80K degree from SCAD. The FIL died in Feb 2 years after retirement as he smoked and drank himself to death.
That ain't me babe.
It's like I'm in the twilight zone.
But I see the tunnel. I see the light.
But now we are starting to get into the issues, so I'll stop. My daughter is in therapy now, but what she really needs better parenting and a better environment. It is why the D is worth it. I could have stuck it out for myself. It is the "for the kids" which is why I'm doing it. But it ain't staying together for them.. the opposite. It is me trying to show them a better way ... a way that my now partner does not want to live.
Here is the kicker, where God has a sense of humor. This part of the message will self destruct. I married a cute but cubby redhead. "**** the 10's, but marry a 7" is what I was taught She's probs a 6 ... ,,, all her local friends are smoking hot tall woman, mainly blonde, married to rich type A dudes. That is her support network. So she is thinking like an entitled smoke show right now, and that is not who I thought I married at all. I out kicked my coverage at work, but I stayed in my lane when it comes to partners, yet I enabled her to build a life I don't want to be a part of. I married a lazy procrastinating narcissist and enabler her. She was raised by narcissist and her father was an enabler who was the HMFIC for bulding the Blue Ocean launch pad in FL. He ran offices for Turner Construction. My MIL didn't get a toothbrush until she was 13. My wife's grandmother should be on TLC hoarders. My FIL paid all her bills. His son is 35, lives with mom, and has never kissed a girl even though he has an $80K degree from SCAD. The FIL died in Feb 2 years after retirement as he smoked and drank himself to death.
That ain't me babe.
It's like I'm in the twilight zone.
But I see the tunnel. I see the light.
The only advice I can give is this, don't believe anything she says get it all down on paper, save any/ all receipt for things you help pay for her or the kids. Make a list as you think of something for the lawyer to include in the papers. And know this, she is no longer the woman that you love, she has become the devil, misleading and undermining you reputation and good name.
Divorced 6 years, remarried two years ago after a year and a half of dating. My new wife has really allowed us to show her how a man and a wife should live and treat each other. New wife also allows my daughter to see how an independent supportive woman lives and interacts with others.
Both my kids love her and support our marriage, it lends normalcy to their lives.
Not something to rush into, but give your kids a good example of what "Normal" is and looks like.
Both my kids love her and support our marriage, it lends normalcy to their lives.
Not something to rush into, but give your kids a good example of what "Normal" is and looks like.
LOL
good luck with that. I thought the same thing. Oh, and mine took the most valuable pieces of my collections.
My "rebound" that i met in a bar is the best thing that ever happened to me.
31+ years now.
The screwing you get for the screwing you got!!!
