My fathers words after death.

[SlyCooper0203]

I keep my dad alive everyday through sharing memories, and taking his guidance. You can sure bet my son will know who is Grandpa is/was.

 

[Lionheart]

Thank you Sir. This thread has helped me alittle bit.. almost a form of therapy for me

My dad passed away young at 65...21 years ago last Monday. Right before Father’s Day and his anniversary on the 17th.
Makes Father’s Day a little sad for me.

 

[THREEJAYS]

I lost my dad when he was 49 , 37 years ago in October and think of him all the time also. We were expecting our first son at the time but at least he knew about it. It’s tough but I have the hope of seeing him again. Thanks for sharing its a great story

 

[Gatorjesse]

I started to tear up reading this. So many people don’t understand that this life is just a blink of an eye to what awaits. You know it now first hand. There is a term to the dream you had... I think it’s called a visitation dream. Your Dad is in such a better place now than what we live in.

This story also has a very weird / interesting timing for me personally too. For the past several days I’ve been questioning my own beliefs and thoughts on what waits for us after we die. I’ve been researching NDEs, terminal lucidity, and these visitation dreams for hours everyday this week ( reading about visitation dreams yesterday) And to just so happen to come onto this website that I haven’t been on in years; click on a section I’ve never clicked on and have your story pop up.....

 

[SlyCooper0203]

I started to tear up reading this. So many people don’t understand that this life is just a blink of an eye to what awaits. You know it now first hand. There is a term to the dream you had... I think it’s called a visitation dream. Your Dad is in such a better place now than what we live in.

This story also has a very weird / interesting timing for me personally too. For the past several days I’ve been questioning my own beliefs and thoughts on what waits for us after we die. I’ve been researching NDEs, terminal lucidity, and these visitation dreams for hours everyday this week ( reading about visitation dreams yesterday) And to just so happen to come onto this website that I haven’t been on in years; click on a section I’ve never clicked on and have your story pop up.....

That’s pretty amazing.. if I could ask my dad just one question… in my mind.. it would be the only question to me that would really matter… “will we be together again?”

 

[SlyCooper0203]

My brother killed himself in 2009. About a month after he died I had a visitation dream from him. It was an incredibly powerful dream and it was all I could talk about for about two weeks. After the two weeks I was saddened when I realized that I upset him in the dream by asking why he killed himself and got angry and fled. I saw him angrily running through time and space, trying to get away from me. Before I upset him he had been laughing and joking and playing out a practical joke that he had pulled on me 10 years before, so he was happy in death until I upset him. Once I realized what I had done, I began praying for him to come back one more time and after about a month there he was once again.
It was a amazing, because I knew I was asleep and also knew I was with him. I said to myself..this is your chance..don't blow it. I walked over to him and he was sitting in a chair talking, with his back to me. I couldn't understand what he was saying, but I walked over to him, fell into his lap and hugged him and said..I love you...and the dream faded away. I never had any further visitation dreams from him, but he has played a role in some dreams that were not visitation dreams. I could tell the difference...there wasn't any question as to when I was having a visitation dream. In both cases I knew I was asleep and I knew I was with him and I had better not waste the time. It's powerful stuff. I believe in a lot of things now, eleven years after his death that I would have never believed before. I've spent a lot of time searching, questioning and learning during this time and his suicide was the catalyst for my change. His suicide may have been the best thing that ever happened to me because it made me wake up and realize how miserable I was and to question my life. All I can say is that there is a lot more going on than we realize. We are all so blinded and consumed by electronic gadgets, entertainment, news, alcohol, drugs, stress, worry, consumerism...etc., but once you start to slow down and allow space for clarity and learning you begin to see things differently. Pull back from the noise go to nature and question everything and things begin to change.

Yes! I completely agree. Thank you for sharing.