I thought about "requirements for trading" or "how close do you look" or "does ODT membership matter" but I wound up with "not sure how to title this"
Here's the story and question.
I listed a pistol for sale on here at what I thought was a decent price. S&W 3913 great shape extra mag for 350. Had a bite the same day and made arrangements to meet. At the meet, I checked the purchasers ID (to make sure he was "of age") and then did the deal. We talked for awhile and parted ways both satisfied. Here's the rub....
I listed my email address (usually the best way to get me). I didn't REALLY check this guy over good, but that's not REALLY my responsibility as I see it. I talked to him about ODT and he was as in awe as I was the first time I found the site. I told him to get back with me after the transaction, so i could get another positive feedback for the transaction.
I've emailed him 4 times over the past two weeks and have yet to hear back. My suspicion is that he was a non-member who just browsed and got me by email. I'm a little bit miffed, cause I'm kinda new to the site, and positive feedback helps around here, so I wanted my 4th "positive." I guess that's not really an issue, but it seems like one to me.
So...should I verify ODT membership before doing a deal? What are y'alls experiences with a situation like this, if any. Thanks.
Here's the story and question.
I listed a pistol for sale on here at what I thought was a decent price. S&W 3913 great shape extra mag for 350. Had a bite the same day and made arrangements to meet. At the meet, I checked the purchasers ID (to make sure he was "of age") and then did the deal. We talked for awhile and parted ways both satisfied. Here's the rub....
I listed my email address (usually the best way to get me). I didn't REALLY check this guy over good, but that's not REALLY my responsibility as I see it. I talked to him about ODT and he was as in awe as I was the first time I found the site. I told him to get back with me after the transaction, so i could get another positive feedback for the transaction.
I've emailed him 4 times over the past two weeks and have yet to hear back. My suspicion is that he was a non-member who just browsed and got me by email. I'm a little bit miffed, cause I'm kinda new to the site, and positive feedback helps around here, so I wanted my 4th "positive." I guess that's not really an issue, but it seems like one to me.
So...should I verify ODT membership before doing a deal? What are y'alls experiences with a situation like this, if any. Thanks.


