I'd just leave a message for him with whoever there answers the phone, "Would you please tell him I want to work things out, AND who knows? He might need a kidney one day."Cliff notes, will try to be unbiased.
My brother is an assistant Sheriff, been in law enforcement for 25ish years.
IMHO, he’s become a tyrant but that’s subjective and my personal opinion.
My family are all good people, most with honorable military service.
Only one of my other brothers has a violent felony record, not me, and no one else in my family.
With the exception of this one brother, none us us have even a traffic citation in at least 20+ years.
I got a ticket 20 years ago for tinted windows.
That’s it.
My “cop” brother cut our entire family off about 7-8 years ago because of a disrespectful conversation he had with my mother.
Things he said to her, I will not tolerate.
In fairness, I said some pretty nasty things. All true, but still nasty.
Because of this, he hasn’t spoken to any of our family in almost 8 years.
Not that I need to defend my actions, I’d like to be the bigger man and apologize and try to reestablish comms and ultimately have my brother back, with whom I love.
Blood is blood in my book.
He has also NO clue the devastation he’s caused our mother!
With that said, I’ve tried to reach out over the years with responding threats that he’d have me arrested for harassment ect ect ... hence tyrant attitude.
I was extremely rude and disrespectful when this all started, but have been nothing but respectful, cordial, and nice ever since.
I’ll also point out, during his threats towards me for contacting him, never ONCE has he specifically asked, requested, or demanded any type of “no contact”
Sorry y’all for a long, TMI, prelude so here’s my question....
For weeks, I’ve been contacting his agency to see if I can speak with him.
I’ve been told everytime that he’s unavailable.
I’ll call everyday until he communicates with me.
Being a public servant, I have that right as long as I stay within the law of that state/county, correct?
