I have any Amazon packages delivered to a drop store in my town in case I'm not home. Living in the country it causes less stress worrying about it until I get back home. Then they send me a bar code email that i show to pickup, easy peasey.
I'll just say this about my experience and maybe some newly married man will learn from my heartbreak. If the loving women you marry ever feels you have wronged her, ignored her or cheated, she will show you the devil that lives within and become the most hateful thing you have had to deal with...