Np, I didn't confirm with a PM because he said he worked odd hours and would text me as soon as he knew when he got off work, first time he didn't show at the arranged time and place, he said his boss made him stay longer and he couldn't text. The next day he apologized when he texted and told me he would meet at the same place at a certain time, he never showed and wouldn't return phone or text messages I sent. So, I left him a NEGATIVESo, he negative you sent to him didn't stick because it wasn't backed up by private messages within the ODT computer system...
so then how did his negative stick against you ?
Did you confirm through PMs to him that you weren't sure if you had a meeting place and time or not, but you were just gonna take a chance and go out there anyway???