I think it is/was common courtesy to inform the officer that she was getting in his car with a weapon, as well as common sense.
One of the reasons I started this thread was to point out an instance of a pleasant encounter between officers and an armed citizen. We always hear the horror stories, but I believe most encounters between reasonable people end on a good note.
Glad to hear that the ladies in your life are o.k. Thanks for sharing this good news story and for making the point that not all LEO/GWL encounters are negative. While we're not required to inform, I believe it is the proper thing to do. After all, in order to receive a GWL we have to prove that we are upright citizens; taking the courteous step to inform merely reinforces this standard.
Your post is unclear- is your wife opposed to carrying, or...?

