Do you ever feel like you just choke the living crap out of your children for just a few seconds..

[basstracker89]

I offer senior discounts for Odt members with good feedback. I can always give “ I don’t know how much longer I have to live, and I wanted you to know” then I can fill with a custom guilt package”. 🕯️💀🕯️

Dang!! You got the marketing all worked out!!

 

[GFB]

I read a few articles that said something along the lines of this: I know it's difficult to believe, but no one wants your stuff. Probably how I came across it was dealing with elderly people trying to give away their things for an extended period, all to people who didn't want it and maybe, at most, took one item out of politeness.

Someone suggested to get a will. You can name an executor and lay out your wishes there. It's a lot better than a text message. Provide the executor with a copy. He can read over it and ask for clarification if there are questions. Probably easier to do now than after you're passed away.

 

[Please Delete]

I sent my son a text the other night explaining how the guns are suppose to be divvied up and how I need to explain to him the cost that went into each one and some that can't be replaced. It was a rather lengthy text and I sent it to him in the middle of the night. As most of you know I have extreme insomnia so I'm up all night and I sleep through the day. I do most of my thinking at night time so when I have something that I need to say I'll just go ahead and pick up the phone and send the text then instead of waiting and possibly forgetting the whole idea all together. So I texted my son back tonight and let him know I have both keys to that safe and I've been meaning to send them out I've just keep forgetting. I sent this text because my eldest son contacted my sister and ask about the combination to the safe. This was basically all that I said in this text that I sent him this night. Well he got on some kind of rampage that I'm in some mood and there's plenty of reasons why that they shouldn't talk to me and all this disrespectful s*** that I don't know where it came from.

I treated those kids like kings when they when I was raising them. Their mother was out of town 6 months out of every year because she was a trade show organizer so she traveled constantly. You know the saying that it takes the village to raise the kid well I had two boys and I raised them by myself meanwhile doing some odds and ends out of the garage to make some money. My wife even told me one time that I was the best father that she had ever seen. Of course her father was no peach but she saw the goodness and how I treated those kids. I think where I went wrong is that had a little too much time on the games and they got phones and it access to the internet too early. What shows two items have been weaponized by the devil to teach and direct people into the wrong ways of life. I truly believe that now. Now I know kids get into a kind of I don't have time for parents attitude when they're in their early twenties I remember myself running around boozing and smoozing the women. But to come off and be so disrespectful on such an innocent text. He told me I was in some kind of a mood. Of course I'm in the mood you just told me there was so much reasons for not to talk to me and then you expect me not to be in a mood. Little disrespectful s***! Said my oldest son didn't owe me anything. Which I don't believe he owes me anything except the respect and admiration for raising his s***** ass from day one up until he was about 18. Man I needed medication after that text. I was livid! Every time I text those kids it's out of love and what I have to say is about what they're going to get in the future and what they want when I'm gone. Text but are nothing but about them and their needs when I go. And I catch all this disrespectful nonsense.

I'll tell you kids ( late teens early twenties ) these days are enough to drive you nuts. Not just the little drive you nuts when you're raising them but when they get this disrespectful attitude and think they know everything. That early 20's attitude is almost too much to deal with. Of course I'm just there snickering because I know when they're my age I just want them to look back on how they treated me now and Hope they've had a change of heart since then.🤬🤬🤬🤬

cut them off. no inheritance. go no contact.

 

[Dice]

I sent my son a text the other night explaining how the guns are suppose to be divvied up and how I need to explain to him the cost that went into each one and some that can't be replaced. It was a rather lengthy text and I sent it to him in the middle of the night. As most of you know I have extreme insomnia so I'm up all night and I sleep through the day. I do most of my thinking at night time so when I have something that I need to say I'll just go ahead and pick up the phone and send the text then instead of waiting and possibly forgetting the whole idea all together. So I texted my son back tonight and let him know I have both keys to that safe and I've been meaning to send them out I've just keep forgetting. I sent this text because my eldest son contacted my sister and ask about the combination to the safe. This was basically all that I said in this text that I sent him this night. Well he got on some kind of rampage that I'm in some mood and there's plenty of reasons why that they shouldn't talk to me and all this disrespectful s*** that I don't know where it came from.

I treated those kids like kings when they when I was raising them. Their mother was out of town 6 months out of every year because she was a trade show organizer so she traveled constantly. You know the saying that it takes the village to raise the kid well I had two boys and I raised them by myself meanwhile doing some odds and ends out of the garage to make some money. My wife even told me one time that I was the best father that she had ever seen. Of course her father was no peach but she saw the goodness and how I treated those kids. I think where I went wrong is that had a little too much time on the games and they got phones and it access to the internet too early. What shows two items have been weaponized by the devil to teach and direct people into the wrong ways of life. I truly believe that now. Now I know kids get into a kind of I don't have time for parents attitude when they're in their early twenties I remember myself running around boozing and smoozing the women. But to come off and be so disrespectful on such an innocent text. He told me I was in some kind of a mood. Of course I'm in the mood you just told me there was so much reasons for not to talk to me and then you expect me not to be in a mood. Little disrespectful s***! Said my oldest son didn't owe me anything. Which I don't believe he owes me anything except the respect and admiration for raising his s***** ass from day one up until he was about 18. Man I needed medication after that text. I was livid! Every time I text those kids it's out of love and what I have to say is about what they're going to get in the future and what they want when I'm gone. Text but are nothing but about them and their needs when I go. And I catch all this disrespectful nonsense.

I'll tell you kids ( late teens early twenties ) these days are enough to drive you nuts. Not just the little drive you nuts when you're raising them but when they get this disrespectful attitude and think they know everything. That early 20's attitude is almost too much to deal with. Of course I'm just there snickering because I know when they're my age I just want them to look back on how they treated me now and Hope they've had a change of heart since then.🤬🤬🤬🤬

at your childrens age they can't even wrap their heads around gun worth and your death. If they inherited all your guns today they wouldn't have them in a year if they needed a cheeseburger and coke at the moment. Write what you want for your will and let them read about it after your gone. You can't control what they do with any of it after you're gone, lets just hope they are lots older and wiser when they DO inherit your stuff.

 

[basstracker89]

at your childrens age they can't even wrap their heads around gun worth and your death. If they inherited all your guns today they wouldn't have them in a year if they needed a cheeseburger and coke at the moment. Write what you want for your will and let them read about it after your gone. You can't control what they do with any of it after you're gone, lets just hope they are lots older and wiser when they DO inherit your stuff.

That's about it right there.

 

[testdepth]

Have you thought about adopting someone that will be more appreciative? Exactly how many guns in the collection, just asking for a friend?

 

[lostchild]

cut them off. no inheritance. go no contact.

According to our attorney, they must be specifically mentioned as receiving nothing in your will, or they can contest it on grounds that you just forgot about them.
Now that I'm getting (gotten?) up in age, my estranged for 50 years daughter has tried to reconnect.
I'm sorry, who are you?

 

[Fatal_Bert]

This thread is sad.

 

[basstracker89]

According to our attorney, they must be specifically mentioned as receiving nothing in your will, or they can contest it on grounds that you just forgot about them.
Now that I'm getting (gotten?) up in age, my estranged for 50 years daughter has tried to reconnect.
I'm sorry, who are you?

Nothin wrong with connecting. Family is the most important thing. But like with our niece, she'll have to work at for a while to get back on our good side

 

[basstracker89]

Thread sad?? It's life, it does happen. I've seen it before with others. I tried to avoid the down falls. But at the end of the day, people are people. And no one can change that