this is where she wanted to go, so i sprung for it....overall scheme of things, not alot of money for us, but more concerned about her having a good time for her 50th bday....read a lot of bad reviews on it on trip advisor..some good, but a lot of bad, but what gets me is that she has been there before, and she wants to go back..i hear the cove is better...may upgrade to that if i can before thursday....tried to talk her into at least a Sandles, all inclusive...but, noooo...so, we are going down to the dollywood of vacations....i will put my happy face on and go with the flow....any tips?? do i blow my brains out before, or after???i cant believe she picked this, as i hear quality has really gone down, and i am gonnna suffer the brunt...we leave thursday...come back wednesday...i have some ideas for dinner for off the resort....would really like to hear from the ladies for ideas....what she wants is the lazy river....she works a high pressure job, and i mean stressfull...we make plenty of money...so that is not a problem...what i am afraid of, is that you cannot relieve the past...so, i am thinking is that we take ANOTHER vacation to aruba after she has been back to work for a week.....ohh, my god, i am pulling my hair out, and i dont have any left to pull out....

