just dont no

[mudking2008]

okay so my girlfriend has been staying with me for a few days and all shes done is been on the phone its driving me nuts.... I had to go get a freezer from a guy on here and take her friend to get it. she asked me when i was leaving next week and i said Tuesday well she goes up and says Caroline (girlfriend) done planned her whole week while I'm gone and i asked what she meant she said that they were going to go out to eat and going to see a GUY friend that shes been wanting to go see that she has not seen in a while and i got quiet and said o. i was quiet the whole ride home.

I don't want to get into details about the past because its behind us now and cant be fixed. but anyhow i kept my mouth closed and all go up stairs to let the dog out of her cage and heard her talking and as i walked down she hurried to get off the phone and started texting went back upstairs for a bit and came back down to smoke a cigg and she was outside same thing hurries to get off the phone and starts texting again its driving me insane and i don't know what to do I got a weird feeling that she is cheating on me but don't know for sure I've asked her numerous times and she yells at me and screams no just like now as I'm typing this shes back on the phone i usually go to my buddy but i thought that id come to ODT and get some more advanced help from other people instead of one person. WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????

 

[atljetmech]

Uh....ask what the hells going on.

 

[user 71]

Read the texts when she's asleep. An invasion of privacy? Yes, but at least you'll know (or "no" as you put it).

 

[mudking2008]

tried she denies it and tells me to shut up she ain't doing anything like that

 

[mudking2008]

bobo404 she locks her phone and pretty much sleeps on top of it

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its came to the point that i'm miserable and don't even want to eat

 

[atljetmech]

tried she denies it and tells me to shut up she ain't doing anything like that

In that case I'd give her a big'ol cup of stfu right out the front door.
Trust me when I say this: Life is too short to put up with **** like that!

 

[rmbrookshire]

Use a PERIOD every now and then when you're typing.

 

[blazedawg87]

Man, from my past experiences (happened twice to me) your gut is telling you whats going on! And tell her that she can either let you see her phone or get the hell out because either way your gonna be pissed. Worked for me once before... i was right.

 

[boneboy96]

Time for her to hit the road!

 

[Bypass]

Listen man. The best thing you can do is "not give a ****" use her up F the **** out of her whenever you feel like it then tell her to go get you a beer. If she complains do what I do "point at the door" and don't say ****. It is just ***** and ***** is like a pail of water you are bound to spill a little bit along the way.