Just got out of jail and my life is over.

[basstracker89]

Got my bank account restored, so there's one good thing. I would bet she's wondering where I am and would break down crying if she was to see me. Dementia is horrible.

Glad to hear it's getting better. Depending on how bad she has it, she may not know you're gone. Just sayin

 

[kodis556]

Glad to hear it's getting better. Depending on how bad she has it, she may not know you're gone. Just sayin

And believe me from experience, the little bitches that did this are doing everything they can to keep the poor woman in the dark about all of this.

 

[Granite3]

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[Dice]

And believe me from experience, the little bitches that did this are doing everything they can to keep the poor woman in the dark about all of this.

given a little time the "little bitches" might bring the patient back to it's original residence and GTF out of the situation. Everyone points fingers and finds fault with the caregiver.....until their sorry ass decides to show up and try to manage the situation. Nursing homes are full of abandoned family members who show up twice a year to point fingers at the "sorry staff"........the same staff thats under paid, under staffed, overworked, and 100 percent not respected.....all the while pointing fingers and complaining on their bi annual bitch session.

 

[basstracker89]

And believe me from experience, the little bitches that did this are doing everything they can to keep the poor woman in the dark about all of this.

Likely. And they likely aren't caring for her either. And she's probably going down hill. I've seen this before.
My Dad's last wife. But they were all 3 peas in a pod. She had stage 4 lung cancer. It was a very ugly affair

 

[Jaf1357]

And believe me from experience, the little bitches that did this are doing everything they can to keep the poor woman in the dark about all of this.

She signed the RO, but I'm sure she wasn't aware and was coerced. If she's in Florida, more than one person is helping her. I did it by myself. She said she still wanted to grow old(older) together. I'm 69and she's 80. She was telling people I was hurting her and I asked how . Said I was hurting her feelings. Told her that's not the impression she's giving.

 

[basstracker89]

given a little time the "little bitches" might bring the patient back to it's original residence and GTF out of the situation. Everyone points fingers and finds fault with the caregiver.....until their sorry ass decides to show up and try to manage the situation. Nursing homes are full of abandoned family members who show up twice a year to point fingers at the "sorry staff"........the same staff thats under paid, under staffed, overworked, and 100 percent not respected.....all the while pointing fingers and complaining on their bi annual bitch session.

My Mother in law lives in assisted living. But it really is a good place. It ain't cheap. Course none are. Anyways, the staff were surprised we come every week. Most don't get visitors I don't think.
My Wife's brothers family just moved away several years ago and rarely has any contact. Unless they want somethin. After my Father in Law passed, I made sure we go every week. One to keep up with how she's being treated and know she's OK. And two so that she's around family. I think it's so important for their survival. I think she'd be gone too if it weren't for us. They have several over 100yrs old there!!

 

[Dice]

Wife's daughters made up some bs about me abusing my wife.. Called the cops because they said they were taking her to Florida without my knowledge. Ended up getting arrested for negligence on disabled. While getting bonded out,hit me with a restraining order, which means I can't go home and I have no vehicle or clothes and so on. Cops have probably taken all of my guns which i was trying to sell to get a new ride. My wife is getting dementia and gets confused quite often, sometimes not recognizing me. Been together 25 years and just recently got married and that just po'd her daughters. Everything is based off of a supposedly me dropping her off of the bed and saying good luck. Nobody's around for this except me and her. Never once dropped her. Postponed knee surgery, because no one could take care of her. Take her to doctors appointments, do her infusions amongst other things. She always said she loves me at night and that I'm all she has .
Don't have a clue what to do,but die.

Don't die. This might turn out to be a life long pardon. You probably need a break from 24/7 elderly care. Let them have a go at it. I feel like they won't last long.

 

[basstracker89]

She signed the RO, but I'm sure she wasn't aware and was coerced. If she's in Florida, more than one person is helping her. I did it by myself. She said she still wanted to grow old(older) together. I'm 69and she's 80. She was telling people I was hurting her and I asked how . Said I was hurting her feelings. Told her that's not the impression she's giving.

You talked to her on the phone?
I know about the care. It takes a village. We take care of both sets of parents and it's alot. We're down to two left. I'm thankful for what they can do

 

[Jaf1357]

Don't die. This might turn out to be a life long pardon. You probably need a break from 24/7 elderly care. Let them have a go at it. I feel like they won't last long.

That's what I wanted was a break,not get arrested. The dementia was bad enough, but sundowners at night was pure he'll. Yelling and hallucinations, getting angry and waking me up. Made the most of it.