sorry to hear that.
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Best way to get over one is to get under one!! My divorce wss best thing thst ever happened to me.Gave her the house she lost it a year later.I built a bigger nicer one.She never knew what I had saved or never saw my guns and things of value.She got me for 2k amonth on CS but hey their my kids and Im ok with that.Sulking never helps just move on and show hrr who you are!Women love to see you down and out.Rise to this occasion and make the best of it!All gunscare replaceable!!
Sorry to hear about your divorce. If it makes you feel any better, I spend $150k in legal fees, lost 2 houses, and owe $5000 in child support and alimony a month. I had to live with a buddy for 2 years, and my wife lived in our big house rent free, while I paid all the bills for 3years until the house sold. I was literally broke, living hand to mouth and she didnt have a care in the world in terms of money. I finally wised up and only paid what the federal limits allow, and it got better. Divorce sucks, if all you young guys knew how bad you could get taken, and how completely unfair the courts can be, you'd never get married.
And I'm not saying dont have kids, because you can still live together, have kids, the kids can be legally your responsibility. The only differience is you dont sign one little piece of paper called a marriage certificiate.
I would be careful what you sell, and if possible, loan/sell them to a buddy for safe keeping. The court can easily go after cash but they have a very hard time and often dont bother with personal property like guns, and other misc "stuff." "Sell" your personal property to a friend. The court can and might garnish your wages, and can and will force you to sell the house, but personal property, furniture, guns, etc are harder for them to deal with, anything that you can get out of your possession and into safe hands, will be things that you have later on.
the reason I'm responding with all this, is that even though it feels like you've got no options, and very little in terms of rights, you actually have more power than you think you do, and keeping a hold on some of your personal things is one way to feel like you've kept something from your past life, and it helps you to remain sane.
If you've already inventoried your guns to the court, and she has copies of receipts and such you may be stuck, but if possible, I'd keep as much as I could, because you may never get your collection back.
At least that was my experience, your mileage may vary.
Sorry to hear that PM sent though.
that sucks
just try and make this process as fast as possible. the longer it gets drawn out the more money goes to attorneys and what not
its tough now but you will make it through, and it sucks you have to sell your firearms.
i had a buddy go through with this, has a 2 year old. the mothers family was well off enough, but she wanted child support still (cause she was a vindictive ****)
he ended up though somehow being able to take like half the CS payments and put them into a trust account or CD for the child to redeem later on, keeps her from getting it. maybe you can ask about that if you want that money going to your kids future and all instead of her directly
either way i hope it works out for you
just try and make this process as fast as possible. the longer it gets drawn out the more money goes to attorneys and what not
its tough now but you will make it through, and it sucks you have to sell your firearms.
i had a buddy go through with this, has a 2 year old. the mothers family was well off enough, but she wanted child support still (cause she was a vindictive ****)
he ended up though somehow being able to take like half the CS payments and put them into a trust account or CD for the child to redeem later on, keeps her from getting it. maybe you can ask about that if you want that money going to your kids future and all instead of her directly
either way i hope it works out for you
Tried to send PM but your box is full. 
When I went thru my divorce, I sold everything I had to my dad for the sum of 1 dollar each. Wrote out a bill of sale and it was all his. I bought it back for pennies on the dollar literally, gave him $.01 for ever gun he bought from me once things were finalized.
I was told that ( Thats the F'n you get for the F'n you got)! It Suck's
Sorry to hear, looks like there will be some deals on here!
sorry fella...ive been there. it aint no fun but things actually turned out better for me in the end.
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