SAD world......

[greg vess]

I've had quite a bit of enlightenment lately and understanding on a bigger picture it seems only I have.
It's about time you find out who's really there for you, your children, your parents etc when times get tough.
I was just served eviction papers for me, my "dying" dad, my wife who is 2 weeks away from my next daughter, and my 3 year old moments ago.
Now mind you, I have had my own place I was renting from the inlaws( I know) first mistake. I said it wouldn't work in the end from the jump. But who am I? Only everything I've ever said about a situation or person has been correct unfortunately. It's starting to get weird, but at least I have an upper hand maybe.

I've been out in Dawsonville for over 2 months now. 2 hours away from my "home" to take care of my dad along with completely turning the house him and we are at into something nice and enjoyable for Dad can have for however long he has left.
We're talking days and weeks worth of hard labor, landscaping, cleaning, new furniture, etc.
Meanwhile I'm paying rent( to the inlaws and my childrens grandparents) and bills for my place out west the whole time as well as here in Dawsonville.
My wife's mom, who's not exactly on her rocker when it counts, tells us a few days ago we have to move out from their house since we're tending to my Dad's house instead of our own...the VERY next day, my dad's "girlfriend" and owner says the same to us. Ya'll, this lady is every bit of 500lbs. I know I've pushed her pos self around in a wheelchair while my dad was in the hospital. She is "handicapped" due to pain from sitting on her ass. She draws a check of course. It's kind of like how cows aren't supposed to lay down, right?
Anyway, i have fed this lady this whole time, cleaned her house, did more work in a day and everyday than she ever will the rest of her life or any previous days shes had. Even paid for her to be able to get to Emory to "see" my dad. Ohh and the lady made medical decisions for my dad for life threatening surgeries that were unnecessary. She pretended to be his wife before I got in the picture or even knew where he was at. She wouldn't disclose his location... my dad only remembers a ride in an ambulance, being physically pefectly fine but sick and then waking up DAYS later out a coma with the whole roof of his mouth removed, some of his lower mouth, his whole left nasal cavity and blind in one eye.
This man worked up to 70 hrs a week up until the very same day he just didn't have any more strength to carry on due to being sick and not knowing it other than a cold.
Let's not even get into medical malpractice yet...but we have a firm working on in right this moment. Only thing is, we have no clue how long my dad has, not even a ballpark.

This bitch just had a dying man served an eviction notice this morning. I don't even need to speak on the things I want to do to these people that put their granchildren out of a place i pay for(never once late even while i was at Emory), I'm sure you can imagine. I have many things and a few little ones and big ones to live for. Believe me, I want very badly to be the "one" I have beyond the means to do it any given day.
They're lucky I made a life and have to guide others, I see a very clear picture of simplicity and what life is, where it's going, how quick it's gone, whos worth being in our time, what I've done with it and so on. I hope and pray others can too before it's too late. I only ever help people, I've even let this same lady live with me at the place I gave up to be screwed over by the inlaws, for free and never asked anything of her. She **** in a bucket by the way. Straight scum and waste of the earth. Poster child for ebt and **** ya know?
The lady also watched her dog tear my dad's elderly lab up that we've been taking care of for 5 years. and leave him in a puddle of his own blood and tissue. Literally watched it. I hope she suffers the same fate to be honest. I don't wish bad upon anyone but a few people I know. For my own sake, I should let it go but baby steps I suppose.

So yes if you cared to read that at all me and my family are getting evicted from 2 different households 100miles apart for entrusting "family". I've exhausted nearly ALL of my resources and funds being out here and doing all I've done. I wasn't slacking, starting problems, not providing, any of that. I was being a man doing what he's meant to do, provide for whats his. I hope my son cares the way I do one day, if it isn't his downfall as it is mine. Along with being the only level headed person I know, it's surreal having people twice your age not being able to comprehend or even to begin to hear what I say during the slightest disagreement or issue or just flat out being wrong. Not sure whats going on with the people on this planet or what happend to their brain matter....It makes me happy when it's all said and done though to an extent.

Sorry for the rant, I don't do Facebook or anything and know there are many great people here on odt. I hope I can meet other like minded people with a head on their shoulders in the future, part of me doesn't want to meet or bring anyone else into my life at any point though which may be the way it goes other than my unborn daughter any day now. I will make sure my family is okay one way or another. It doesn't matter to me how at this point. I had a neighbor suggest a go fund me, I will never ask anyone for anything. I've always provided for myself and children and will continue to do so.
To all the dad's or men out there struggling, thinking all is lost, fighting for their children as I've done, and trying to crawl out of that hole we all know too well, you got this sh¡t. Only you have the answers.

I will pray for God to open a door for you brother. I surely hope things turn for the better for you and quick. I have run on faith in God for years now and he has taken care of me when I couldn't.
I do not think asking for help from our friends is a bad thing but they should see your situation and put off that new car, new house or whatever to help you out.

God please bless ( murf24) find his way through this difficult time and provide for him where he needs it most. Amen!

 

[greg vess]

I suspect the NAACP website or it's links tells how to road-block being evicted

Yee isn't there a legal precedent for that action. I know squatters can't be yanked out a home they have just invaded and set up shop. There should be a way to combat this. They probably want you out to jack up the rent since this situation starting with covid epidemic, Economy wise I mean.

 

[murf24]

We been cool brother, I can be a ****tard sometimes and not even realizing till later..,and we both know what we speaking of..,you really humbled me and I appreciate that.. your not an asshole like the other 2-3 here.. I appreciate you more than you probably know.. just remember my pm to you awhile back??

Of course I remember. Can't forget a genuine conversation for once. I'll holler atcha one day here soon when things aren't so crazy. Looking for some land to start afresh if there's any out that way with financing for now.

 

[renagadeinjun]

Prayers for all, peace and for doors to be opened.............