I tried a 38 and love revolvers, but had trouble firing it every time. I need to exercise my girlie hands...lol!
If you are looking for a small revolver, try the Ruger LCR... Their trigger is far and away one of the best 'out of the box' for a small, double-action revolver.
Plus they have them in calibers from 22LR to 357 Magnum with everything else in-between. You can go from almost no recoil in the 22, to a little more in 22 Mag, to even more in 38 Special to even more in 9mm or 327 Federal and all the way up to a hand cannon in 357 Magnum.

