Clean break. Relocate to a new city or part of the Atlanta area. Start over, write em off.
Or, stick around, get that job back, and negotiate a HUGE raise out of it all.
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Clean break. Relocate to a new city or part of the Atlanta area. Start over, write em off.
Or, stick around, get that job back, and negotiate a HUGE raise out of it all.
I know you are in a very tough situation. I am aware of the feelings you feel. Your comfort zone has been crushed, and the feelings of uncertainty are overwhelming. First, realize that in this situation you are not the one who committed the sin. Do not blame yourself. It take a special kind of person to be with a woman and accept her children from another father as your own, and I commend you for that sir. But your road ahead is only what you choose and make of it. Do so only in confidence. Here are a couple of verses from the Bible that have stuck out to me. People change as time goes by, some for the better and some for the worse. I wish you well in your future endeavors.
Proverbs 5:3-9 For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths are crooked, but she knows it not.
John 8:4-11 [They] said to Jesus, "Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?" They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him. But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her." Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" "No one, sir," she said. "Then neither do I condemn you," Jesus
declared. "Go now and leave your life of sin."
Proverbs 5:3-9 For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths are crooked, but she knows it not.
John 8:4-11 [They] said to Jesus, "Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?" They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him. But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her." Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" "No one, sir," she said. "Then neither do I condemn you," Jesus
declared. "Go now and leave your life of sin."
It's none of my business but here's my 2 cents. 20yrs ago I divorced my x-wife for cheating(I don't miss her). I made a man wet his pants and run for his life, fortunately I didn't kill him an spend years in prison over a cheating *****. No kids involved. Since then I have dumped another for the same offense (not married to her) but lost her kid in that deal. I still wonder how that boy is doin but..... Depending on the age of the kids, they may understand and choose to keep in touch. If its in your heart to forgive and forget (but you don't really forget) u might always wonder what's goin on at your house while ur at work and that would b a hard life. I say to follow ur heart as we r all different inside and only u know your heart and ur level of ability to forgive. I personally ran as far from both of them as I could and severed all contact. Her kids IMHO r the real question here. Have u been in their life for 6months or 6yrs and they have only known u? I don't miss the X's as much as the innocent kids that stupid ***** involved in her bad decision making so they could have the opportunity to grow up calling 15 men daddy. I have a buddy that can't poop in the woods, this won't help u but it makes me laugh.
p.s. I do now have a good wife and kids (1 is mine). Either way- it's not the end of ur life
p.s. I do now have a good wife and kids (1 is mine). Either way- it's not the end of ur life
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Iam sorry to hear this but please be smart and dont let your anger get the best of you. Dont slap or hit her or touch her you dont want your gun rights taken away. The law is geting very tough on domestic violice . A cheating woman is not worth you loseing your right to own a gun
this is the best way I can put it. RUN!!!
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Look man I have seen the pictures...She has a nice rack but she isn't all that attractive really.
If it were me I would tell her I forgive her, hit it one last time, nut in her hair and tell her **** just isn't working out and find a woman who can be faithful. All this biblical information and anecdotal stories are great but its life and you need to man up and do whats best for you.
Its like someone else in this thread already said.... If it were one of your buddies in your shoes what would you tell him to do?
If it were me I would tell her I forgive her, hit it one last time, nut in her hair and tell her **** just isn't working out and find a woman who can be faithful. All this biblical information and anecdotal stories are great but its life and you need to man up and do whats best for you.
Its like someone else in this thread already said.... If it were one of your buddies in your shoes what would you tell him to do?
You need to find a stupid, fat, ugly, broke ass, ***** that can cook.
They will be faithful till the end.
Hell it ain't like nobody else wants them.
They will be faithful till the end.
Hell it ain't like nobody else wants them.
take it from an old guy, just walk away, there's plenty more out there. seeing you with someone else and happy will hurt her more than you will ever know. I know it's tough now been there and tried to work through it. trust me it would happen again maybe look at her history. sad for the children but they will also make it hard on her. find another one only if for an hour she will make you forget the other. then time will pass and you will look back ans say damn why did I stay as long as I did.
Good luck with your adventures. you have us your ODT family and I'm sure other family and friends for support
Good luck with your adventures. you have us your ODT family and I'm sure other family and friends for support
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