• If you are having trouble changng your password please click here for help.

dang... 3 of my friends are having a divorce...

I'm an attorney and practice divorce and domestic law. My observations in the past have shown me that divorce is like a virus. It takes hold in a group, community or subdivision and spreads. The hardest hit are always the children. Be careful when those around you are getting divorce, and advise them to seek a Christian counselor, non-christian counselors can be poison. If they cannot work it out, good lawyers are key, not attorneys looking to drain their bank accounts.

You also have to watch out for her friends and co-workers. If they are single or divorced they are bad influences on her. After 10 years of marriage my ex-wife's friends influenced her that she wanted to be single. Out all night, get drunk, sleep all day so on and so forth. Another friend of mine, married for 20 years with 3 kids, she decided she wanted to be single. Left the house and the kids to "do her own thing". In my opinion, they loose their minds when they turn 40.


Good lawyers are worth their weight in gold.
 
Wow......u guys are inspiration. What's your secret!!!


I might not be able to give ya'll to much firearm advice, but I am an expert on marriage. First thing I did after marrying that fiesty red head of mine more than 20 years ago was teach her to shoot. She's an awful good shot and has not had any trouble out of me yet.
 
I'm an attorney and practice divorce and domestic law. My observations in the past have shown me that divorce is like a virus. It takes hold in a group, community or subdivision and spreads. The hardest hit are always the children. Be careful when those around you are getting divorce, and advise them to seek a Christian counselor, non-christian counselors can be poison. If they cannot work it out, good lawyers are key, not attorneys looking to drain their bank accounts.
In Proverbs it warns us to be slow to court. I have heeded that advice and not had to use the legal system in my 44 years. Having said that I am going to request N Cochran as a friend in case I ever need legal counsel, because that my friend is far better counsel than you will get from Judge Judy. It's the best thing I have ever heard an attorney say. I believe GOD created Heaven & Earth. He can easily heal a marriage if you turn it over to him.
 
I hit 27 years back on 10 Feb 11, but we are 47 yrs old for me and wife is 45. 20+ yrs spent in US Army Infantry as part of those 27. WOW seems like just yesterday.........
 
Going on 26 years... also High School sweethearts (and went to college together). Mostly good until I'm buying too many guns :)
 
Back
Top Bottom