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Dont do what I did!!

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Y'all are going to make him do a Kurt Cobain impression once the reality of just how bad this really is sets in.

That'll be loads of chuckles. Yeah, loads of chuckles.

Dont come to a gun forum for touchy feely relationship advice. If the OP wants help get a couselor instead of asking advice from people you don't know....
 
But do you really believe it will work? I mean, I will not say it isn't worth a shot if he really wants to save the marriage and keep his family intact but I don't know...She sounds pretty angry and fed up to me. :D After 15 years of being ignored, she finally said "there has to be more to life than this...Why the hell am I still here? What's in it for me?"...According to his own words, he's a selfish prick. (I added the prick part for dynamics) He has a lot of making up, sucking up, kissing up to do, and I'm of the mind this woman will respect him even less for it. It shouldn't have taken her leaving to wake his ass up. I'll bet she kicks herself for taking it so long, especially after seeing his reaction to her finally showing some independence...I've seen this crap a thousand times. One person takes the other for granted for too long and then one day boom...The one who has been mistreated wakes up, says to hell with this, stops giving a ****, and everything flip flops...The roles reverse and the one who took the other for granted for years goes crazy insane because of their own guilt. And kids or no kids there are some women who reach a point where they make up their minds and when that point is reached, bye.

I'm finding it hard to understand why he would unload this baggage here of all places...I mean, according to him this place is a part of the problem.

Maybe, maybe not. He's got to try or just let her walk away. If he does nothing but talk, she's definitely gone. The fact that she has put up with him for this long seems to say he has no idea just how good of a woman she is.
 
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