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Dont do what I did!!

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In all honesty, OP's life sounds like the makings of a somewhat hilarious reality show. I mean if you want to make lemonade out of lemons, just get a camera crew to film that day to day routine. I never read long posts like that but I was pretty captivated. The story just kept getting more unbelievable with every sentance. If Honey Boo Boo and the rest of her inbred family can achieve any degree of fame, I think this is a sure winner. OP doesn't need marriage counciling, he needs an agent.
 
OP, Your man card has been deactivated. Mail it to the ODT office for processing and redistribution.
Please mail it to:
The Outdoors Trader
PO Box 813669
Smyrna, GA 30081
 

I'm thinking no.

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OP, do you really want to save it? If you do, you need to do something serious now. Talk is cheap and after 15 years of you treating her like crap why should she believe your words.

Get off of ALL the forums you belong to and dedicate the time you would have spent there to your family. Sell ALL of your outdoor equipment and dedicate that money to your family. Because you have sold all your equipment you will be able to dedicate the time you would have spent outdoors to your family. You have 15 years of time to make up. Get started now or never do it at all.

Maybe, someday when you have regained her trust and found some perspective, you can go play in the woods again in an appropriate manner.
 
You can fix it, I'm going on my 25th year of marriage, and let me tell you I drove her CRAZY with my military career 22 years and and about 5 Desert deployments and 2 overseas 12 Month tours in Korea. Hell, I was deployed to Saudi Arabia 2 months after OUR marriage, and much more **** that we do with our MILITARY buddies. My wife was just as depressed and pissed as your wife, but I fixed it with the help of GOD and taking care of home 1st. STAY STRONG and give her ATTENTION!!
 
She sounds crazy if truth be told. Getting bent over an outdoor website? lol Sounds more like maybe she has a side thing going and using this as her excuse to push blame to you.
 
Soooo.....

Instead of fixing your issues right away, you decided spend even more time writing a 500 word essay on why you screwed up....ON THE SITE YOU CLAIMED YOU SPEND MORE TIME WITH THAN HER???

Sorry to hear your troubles, but stay off here and get busy fixing your issues. I wouldn't be surprised if your wife wrote this to begin with....

First thing that came to my mind when I read this. Although I applaud his intentions of letting his life be a lesson, my worries are that the OP may be too stuck in his ways to change and be the man she needs him to be. I truly hope for the contrary. Now on my 2nd marriage, I do not wish divorce on any man or woman, when its salvageable, (and by all means some are not).

OP, may God bless you, your wife, and family. They are the most precious gift you'll ever receive on this earth. I truly hope this can be worked out. I do hope you look for help in the right places, and let no man put asunder...
 
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