Dont do what I did!!

[MRH]

Blame it on the O D T baby, FAIL.....

Yes.

I was waiting on a punchline,......and there was none

haha!

 

[GeauxLSU]

I'm finding it hard to understand why he would unload this baggage here of all places...I mean, according to him this place is a part of the problem.

I believe he did it as an open apology since she obviously reads the site.
In any case, have you seen what people post here? NOTHING is off limits (apparently).

 

[chucklenut]

I will say it takes alot to recognize you are the problem

OP, i can respect you being honest but you need to tell her

Im kinda a ****ty person but i would never steal or betray someone for instance. Forgiveness starts with you.admitting your faults to the wronged party and doing everything you can to earn back that trust. Sometimed its not enough but if you honestl. try as hard as you can, you may be able to preserve or regain some self respect at the least

I wish you luck

 

[MRH]

I believe he did it as an open apology since she obviously reads the site.
In any case, have you seen what people post here? NOTHING is off limits (apparently).

True, and after reading the posts she edited, I thought the things he said were pretty mild in comparison to some of the things we are subjected to here.

 

[MRH]

I will say it takes alot to recognize you are the problem

OP, i can respect you being honest but you need to tell her

Im kinda a ****ty person but i would never steal or betray someone for instance. Forgiveness starts with you.admitting your faults to the wronged party and doing everything you can to earn back that trust. Sometimed its not enough but if you honestl. try as hard as you can, you may be able to preserve or regain some self respect at the least

I wish you luck

Totally agree with all of this, but he should not grovel and whine about it when he does it. Speak to her calmly, tell her you understand why she's upset and you won't blame her if she leaves. That's being a man about it. Don't snivel and cry and try to make her feel sorry for you. That won't work. Show her you respect her, but also show her you respect your new self and the decisions you've made for yourself and the family. This will help her believe you. Being a cry baby will make her resent you even more. Be strong about it, but be real.

OK yall can have it. Man the ODT is off to a great 2015...Glad I'm not the one who will be missing all the drama around here. Hell this is way better than Days of our lives.

 

[chucklenut]

Totally agree with all of this, but he should not grovel and whine about it when he does it. Speak to her calmly, tell her you understand why she's upset and you won't blame her if she leaves. That's being a man about it. Don't snivel and cry and try to make her feel sorry for you. That won't work. Show her you respect her, but also show her you respect your new self and the decisions you've made for yourself and the family. This will help her believe you. Being a cry baby will make her resent you even more. Be strong about it, but be real.

OK yall can have it. Man the ODT is off to a great 2015...Glad I'm not the one who will be missing all the drama around here. Hell this is way better than Days of our lives.

The view aint got **** on.us

 

[captdave77]

There are thousands of members here who can spend time on the ODT without neglecting wives. You can't blame a website, but if she was smart, she copied your posts for her attorney.

OP, you are probably ****ed in court. You kept her barefoot, pregnant, and without independent income. Go ahead and find yourself a trailer and a couple of roommates because she will get the kids, house, most of your salary, and whatever else she wants. While you are enjoying your dad weekends, she will be bathing in neon sunshine. When I was a younger man, I could spot a recent divorce´ from a mile away.

 

[Laufen]

There are thousands of members here who can spend time on the ODT without neglecting wives. You can't blame a website, but if she was smart, she copied your posts for her attorney.

OP, you are probably ****ed in court. You kept her barefoot, pregnant, and without independent income. Go ahead and find yourself a trailer and a couple of roommates because she will get the kids, house, most of your salary, and whatever else she wants. While you are enjoying your dad weekends, she will be bathing in neon sunshine. When I was a younger man, I could spot a recent divorce´ from a mile away.

Aye Caramba!

 

[Bypass]

I just wanted to share with you a cautionary tale about this obsession I have and this website My wife and I have been married for almost 15 years and she has given me 5 children and is six months pregnant. In the course of our marriage I have spent an inordinate amount of time on my hobbies. she has homeschooled our children, so she gets almost no adult interaction during the day. Time that I should have spent on her, I spent on my own selfish pursuits. When we were first married, I left my young wife alone far out on the woods at the trailer we lived in so that I could go on hunting trips out of state with my buddies. She cried and begged me not to go because she was scared to be out there alone and did not feel safe. I went anyway. Aside from the fact she was a mental wreck and hadn't slept since I left she was ok. None of her fears of rapist or trailer fires had happened but despite that she spent three miserable days alone while I was with no phone for her to reach me had some thing actually happened. There was also the time I drug her along with our four year old and new born son to sit in a hunting camp for new years. She had just had a c section and was still recovering from the surgery, but I wanted to hunt. Her option was to stay home alone or go with me. So she came and I spent the whole week hunting and she spent the whole week cooking and cleaning for every one there. She was tired and in pain, but I was doing what I loved and that was all that mattered to me. There were other trips that I used our vacation time on for her to wait on me I while I played in the woods. Never once asking her what she wanted to do. It has been 2 years since such a trip, but for three months out of the year I still eat up all my free time pursuing my hunting obsession. Every weekend my wife who is alone with the kids all day gets none of the attention she is so desperate for. Every night I get on this and other websites and waste the time that I should be devoting to her talking back and forth with a bunch of stranger's. Other things have happened in our marriage that have completely erased her trust that none exists where I am concerned. A few weeks ago I made some post's about lap dances and strippers. I meant them as a joke, but didn't take into account that my wife would ever see them or how she would feel if she did. Well she saw them because this website has gotten son much of my attention over the years she understandably wanted to know what I was really up to. So she went into my account and there they were. It devastated her. She is angry and humiliated that I could talk that way. That when I don't think she is looking I act like some one else. This small act was just the straw that broke the camel's back and now she's saying 15 years of this is enough and she is ready to leave. I cant say I blame her. In all this time she has devoted her life to me and our children. She has gone with out in every circumstance so that I could be happy. In turn I hurt and embarrassed her. treated her like a commodity and put my own happiness above hers in everything. So now I am looking at the possibility of not having her all for some thing stupid and pointless. So my advice to all of you is get out of the woods and off of the computer. Buy her something sparkly and expensive, take her out dancing, give her all of your time and attention. My dad made the same mistakes and now he is all alone with the free time in the world but trust me having her is a hell of a lot better than freezing alone in a deer stand and coming home to a cold bed. With this I want to say to her I am sorry I hurt you.

Yeah, you're a ****ing asshole. She is better off without you. Think about that and stew on it for a while.

 

[ARCman47]

Yeah, you're a ****ing asshole. She is better off without you. Think about that and stew on it for a while.

You dick!