If there's such a thing as too thin in .380, the Bodyguard fits the description. It can be painful to shoot in the wrong hands. Compromise between weight and recoil -- like being kicked in the thumb joint by a blade... I would suggest she needs to shoot a few .380's to decide.
The LCP & KelTec P3AT is worse... simple physics.
Agree with your last statement. There is no substitute for letting them decide for themselves w/o pushing a gun on them they don't want or like.
Men make that mistake all the time.

