Huge mess..punished for owning guns!?!

[Tazz]

put your life in GODS hands trust in him and pray for his guidence he will lead you down the right path do all that is ask of you by the court so you will be able to be part of your childs life which is the most imported thing MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND GIVE YOU THE STRENGH THAT YOU NEED TO MAKE IT THROUGH

What he said.....and THANK YOU for your service to the country.

 

[Godfather4109]

well i havnt gotten the letter up yet, but just to ease some minds, i have this. Just proves that i am military pretty much, for those of you who do not know, it is my profile from the Army Knowledge Online site. I did have to black out some info just to cover myself, not sure what is deemed sensitive info

 

[Godfather4109]

This is my fav video, just wanted to share it with anybody who cares to see it. Its me and my little girl a few months before all this mess happened and i was ordered to stay away from her....

[video=facebook;412802625215]http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=412802625215[/video]

 

[womsterr]

Robert - I wish you well. Respectfully - I think you should blackout your tel number etc etc....

 

[AlwaysCareful]

yea i thought about doing that, but then what happens if i get caught with a gun? pulled over or whatever. Or what happens if god forbid i have to use a gun? will i then be arrested for murder since i was not supposed to have the gun to begin with? its a messy situation and really sucks. I feel like some sort of criminal, its all very degrading. Especially the fact that im military and still all this is happening.

Either way, the gun thing really sucks, and is quite an inconvenience and annoyance, but my main concern is my daughter, and now im being told i wont be able to see her for probably another 6 months? its already been over 4, its crazy. How could they keep a father and daughter apart for almost a year, if it doesnt end up being more than a year! Rediculous!

The only thing you can do is to keep your daughter foremost in your mind and let your love for her carry you through. Go unarmed, because she's worth it. Avoid confrontations, because she's worth it. Let another man insult you and your manhood and your momma, because she's worth it. The suffering you are experiencing will pass, but if you see it through you will have a relationship with her that will last the rest of your days. And as much as she will mean to you through your years, and as much of a difference she will make in your life, the bottom line is that as a Dad, your joy, your happiness, aren't that important. What is important is that SHE needs YOU in her life. It is YOUR job to make that happen.

Thank you for your service to our country and congratulations on your dedication to your daughter. I guess sometimes service as a Dad can be as challenging as an overseas assignment...

 

[07JKX]

being in the legal field and dealing with this every day, bottomline... judges love crying women... they will side with them nearly all the time.

Female Judge says you should be ashamed of yourself for treating her like that.

Male Judge say its okay dear... I wont let the bad man hurt you.


In a technological world, we use facebook, my space, And YES forums to gather information to use against the other party. The old saying goes "it time to lawyer up"

if you dont have a lawyer, get one... and if it were me, I would not post any information about anything related to your present case on any public medium.

I hate to hear what you are going through... Good luck

 

[CCW]

Robert, what you are going through is definitely undesirable and my post may be offensive so let me apologize in advance if it is. What I am about to type is not meant to be abrasive, however it is meant for you to digest and look inside because there is a reason this is all unfolding the way it is.

I cant imagine being told that I cant see the 3 people that look up to me for everything in life. On the other hand, in almost 40 years, I have seen, heard and been subject to a large amount of one-sided stories. You have come to a public gun forum and spilled all of your side of a "poor me" story and expect us to have sympathy and feel sorry for you yet we have no other info from the other side. It's fairly easy to manipulate your audience when you do not have the other party to balance the story. Don't get me wrong. I am not implying that you are flat out lying or being dishonest, however our human nature is to throw out the cleanest, most innocent "us", something I have grown accustom to analyzing as soon as I see it crop up. Everybody is always the innocent one and how dare someone treat us this way.....right?

The bottom line is that your daughter needs a loving, honest father. Someone who will fight for her. Someone who she knows will protect her.

While I am sorry that I cannot offer a "poor Robert" post, please know that I hope this all works out for all of you, including the other party.............and especially your daughter.

 

[wdawg249]

Robert, what you are going through is definitely undesirable and my post may be offensive so let me apologize in advance if it is. What I am about to type is not meant to be abrasive, however it is meant for you to digest and look inside because there is a reason this is all unfolding the way it is.

I cant imagine being told that I cant see the 3 people that look up to me for everything in life. On the other hand, in almost 40 years, I have seen, heard and been subject to a large amount of one-sided stories. You have come to a public gun forum and spilled all of your side of a "poor me" story and expect us to have sympathy and feel sorry for you yet we have no other info from the other side. It's fairly easy to manipulate your audience when you do not have the other party to balance the story. Don't get me wrong. I am not implying that you are flat out lying or being dishonest, however our human nature is to throw out the cleanest, most innocent "us", something I have grown accustom to analyzing as soon as I see it crop up. Everybody is always the innocent one and how dare someone treat us this way.....right?

The bottom line is that your daughter needs a loving, honest father. Someone who will fight for her. Someone who she knows will protect her.

While I am sorry that I cannot offer a "poor Robert" post, please know that I hope this all works out for all of you, including the other party.............and especially your daughter.

Well stated.

 

[klarktx]

Robert, what you are going through is definitely undesirable and my post may be offensive so let me apologize in advance if it is. What I am about to type is not meant to be abrasive, however it is meant for you to digest and look inside because there is a reason this is all unfolding the way it is.

I cant imagine being told that I cant see the 3 people that look up to me for everything in life. On the other hand, in almost 40 years, I have seen, heard and been subject to a large amount of one-sided stories. You have come to a public gun forum and spilled all of your side of a "poor me" story and expect us to have sympathy and feel sorry for you yet we have no other info from the other side. It's fairly easy to manipulate your audience when you do not have the other party to balance the story. Don't get me wrong. I am not implying that you are flat out lying or being dishonest, however our human nature is to throw out the cleanest, most innocent "us", something I have grown accustom to analyzing as soon as I see it crop up. Everybody is always the innocent one and how dare someone treat us this way.....right?

The bottom line is that your daughter needs a loving, honest father. Someone who will fight for her. Someone who she knows will protect her.

While I am sorry that I cannot offer a "poor Robert" post, please know that I hope this all works out for all of you, including the other party.............and especially your daughter.

Pretty much what I have thought all along. Just had to pay CCW $5 to type that up for me. I didn't have the patience or the interest I suppose. I just say it comes across as ALOT of too much personal info and i found it very alien in its complete context here in this forum.

 

[Godfather4109]

Im not asking for sympathy, or pity, or even help. Though i do appreciate the advice some have given. I was simply venting and some people were obviously sympathetic, others were not. so to each his own.

Plus i figured with this being more of an outdoorsman and gun forum, maybe somebody had seen similar situations and would have some useful advice. I really dont see why this is such a big deal to you Klark....if you dont like this thread then just stop clicking on it.