thats awfulI'm not reading the ten pages but I have been through this with my wife. Her back problems started in her mid 30s. It was depressing and crippling. She could not ride on the boat, walk around the boat show, go to sporting events, or even sit in the car for long hours. If we went away, the first issue to address was the bed we would be sleeping in. Her back pain was the number one issue in our life.
She went through shots, therapy, and finally a lower lumbar fusion. The surgeons went in through the front and gutted her like a fish, putting her intestines on a table next to her to get to the vertebrae.
The recovery was awful. She was on a walker at thirtysomething for 6 months and full recovery took almost a year. This is not a recovery for anyone who lives by himself.
Ultimately the surgery was a positive thing. We never could have done the traveling we do without it and she is certainly more mobile.
She is having pain again and again we are going through injections. Some injections are magic and some don't work at all. It is something she will have to manage for the rest of her life.
Luckily she does not have an addictive personality but back pain makes opioid dependence a very real possibility. The doctors write scripts for oxy like it is aspirin.
mine isnt nearly as debilitating
