IMO, its silly to get into a brand debate or pixel peeping with someone new to photography. The performance of even the worst kit lens on the market today is extremely good. The OP needs something easy to operate and to understand what tools to use to make the experience less frustrating.
The D3200 is a great camera. Frankly, any current camera Nikon or Canon makes is going to give you fantastic picture quality. So play with a few in the store and get what is comfortable.
What you need:
Portraits and snapshots in bright light: the 18-55 kit lens is fine. A prime lens will always be sharper and let you play with depth of field.
Sports Outside: You'll want a telephoto. The 55-200 is good for cheap. I used to have the 70-300 which was a great under rated lens. I think they also have a 55-300 now which I'm sure is great for the price.
Low Light Portraits or snapshots Inside: You likely want a prime lens. I'm sticking with my 35mm recommendation. You'll also want a flash for when you need a focal distance other than 35mm. I wouldn't buy anything Nikon less than the SB-700, or if you can find a used SB-600 they are OK. In many instances you might need to use the prime with the flash.
Low Light where you can't bounce the flash's light off the ceiling: You want a prime. Again, the 35mm is cheap and good.
This is about all you can do at entry level. Doing anything with a telephoto in low light means LOTS of cash.
Yea I was thinking that I'd probably be happy and content with anything since I doubt I'd know better but electronics last a long time in this house and I want something that isn't too old but isn't the best but offers me good room to grow.