It is here too for the most part, she turned 80 last year and lost her life insurance so I still have funeral costs to pay for cause they don't write off those costs. There's just so much to do it's overwhelming, we had to make I don't even know how many 120+ mile round trips back & forth to her apt. to empty it out and even after giving a lot away we still barely have enough room to move in our house. I'm her only child so it's all left to me to handle. She had a bunch of doctor, hospital & credit card bills to deal with too, I'm just exhausted.Tazz Just a thought, in Oz you are not responsible for the bills of someone who has passed on. Most companies give up when you advise them that this is the case, don’t know if this is the case in the US but worth a try.