So I’m a private person and do not talk about family issues but at this point I’m at a loss. I need some good advice maybe one of you have felt with something like this or have an idea that I haven’t thought of. So long story short I have an almost 12 year old step son. I’ve been around for 6 years and even calls me dad by his own choice. However we can not get his behavior under control. Finally doing better at home but school it’s become even worse. This have been going on for a few years now. Has iss and detention almost every day. Just a few examples threw crayons in class, yelled at teachers more then once, cussed at kids in the middle of the class, vandalized our pool area in are neighborhood.... you get the idea. We have tried ever punishment you can think of besides a belt. Yes we do believe in spankings for kids. Had a Councilor and even dr prescribed meds but nothing has helped. Any you have advice?