We survived 3 tornadoes in 2.5yrs….this sucks

[bigt61]

man i know how that is, i hate asking for help but let me say NEVER feel guilty or bad about asking for it. Almost every single person i have ever met has needed some sort of assistance in trying times and brother, you got some mighty ****ing trying times youre dealing with. You being able to ask for help is infinitely better than what the added stress of not asking can do to you. many folks just try to get through and burn themselves out so bad that even when they are out they cant handle their normal issues, remember you have to take care of yourself first so that you can take care of everyone else appropriately.

I’m at that point. Burnt out. Had a plan before this second one now got knocked back again. Even just going back to the area to reclaim our stuff or dealing with problematic insurance is a PTSD trigger/mental shutdown. It’s a completely different kind of “tiredness”….it comes from behind your eyes,your brain,your body cells…..it’s not a “I’m sleepy” thing….:and for those who haven’t experienced it i can’t really describe it. Like I’m a ghost shell here on the planet.

 

[keith089]

Prayers

 

[medium187mph]

Praying for some breakthrough and signs of hope! Keep your head up, fight the silent battle, step into his glory and watch how things turn around!

 

[41mag]

Dude…you are in a world of crap it sounds like !! You have stuff coming from all kinds of different places and it is definitely a pain to deal with.
You need some help for damned sure ! This is where insurance is supposed to help but lots of times drag their ass trying to minimize their payouts.
If you have to you need to consult an attorney. Meanwhile I would try resources from my county govt and also see if Red Cross can pitch in. There are all sorts of programs designated for this stuff.
I know the pride is hard to swallow and ask but sometimes you have to !! YOU NEED HELP !! Don’t be afraid to ask for it .

My prayers for you and your family. I truly hope things turn around. If I wasn’t in crap shape I would try to help any way possible. Sometimes just a ride, or an extra bag of groceries is what it takes to keep things on track. More often it takes a good bit of hard work and some help from Govt resources as well as friends and family to kick in.
If I was physically able I would try to help but I got my own crap fest going on too ! lol.
Good luck brother, I really pray you get what you need !

 

[Timber Cruiser]

Damn dude. Hang in there. Gotta be something good coming. So sorry to hear.

 

[chupacabra]

I can objectively see where you’re coming from about kids. No harm,no foul.
I don’t have any problems supporting my kids,so no issue there. I won’t argue, the world is expensive to survive in whether you have children or not. A man of Faith? Absolutely. Unexpected,but last child? Yes. Unwanted/Unloved? Absolutely not. God has been good to me,better than I ever will deserve and always provided a way. We aren’t on food stamps or social programs/handouts. Never have been. Stubborn independent is what we are lol.

understood, you are right. its my bad for assuming you were having financial problems

 

[burger146]

I know this is hard to deal with. We had a tornado hit our house and property several years ago not only damaging the house put destroying 50 acres of trees that were ready to be thined.

Insurance sucks and they will do everything in their power not to pay. That in itself is hard to deal with much less all you have gone through.

I also sent you a PM

 

[The Old Jaybird]

I know the Southern Baptists have storm outreach programs as does the Red Cross and Salvation Army. Lean hard on your insurance agent, that's what he/she is there for, light a fire under them to get your claims settled. Also you can get free help from the State Insurnace Commishoners office.

 

[bulldogparts]

For what it may or may not be worth, a call to the Ga. Insurance Commissioner may help with the insurance company. My wife has had to call them a few times on medical claims for patients, and they always helped get the insurance company moving along a little faster.

 

[WallsGa]

Man that’s tough. I can’t imagine going through all that at once. Like the man said above, at least call the State insurance office. It may help but it can’t hurt.

What kind of work to you do? I’d be looking for a new job. **** that asshole.