What am I so afraid of?

[jloneill17]

Telling her that you can't bring home stray animals probably doesn't send the correct message.

sometimes that's what a stalker needs to hear.

 

[Laufen]

b/c he thinks he is all mighty and powerful OZ. hgums knows what's best for all of us. he's a true left wing atheist.

Yes, your advice was exemplary.

 

[jloneill17]

We still need a pic before this thread gets locked!!!!!

I agree, tell her to send some naked pics and you'll take her out and even splurge for the supersize value meal

 

[jloneill17]

Yes, your advice was exemplary.

it was no better or worse than yours.

 

[SuperMario92]

Telling her that you can't bring home stray animals probably doesn't send the correct message.

Ok, it was a bad joke. I thought I was pretty funny.

I think you've taken the wrong advice.

I can appreciate a guy that asks for advice, so here it is. You're being a punk ***hole! How's that? Well, you did ask.
This woman has kids. This isn't about just YOUR life. You're a kid by your own admission. You know how you stop being a kid? By becoming a man. Do HER a favor if you have any feelings and backbone at all and MOVE ON! If your pecker is distracting you go find someone else that is interested in JUST taking care of that itch for you and stop screwing around with somebody's momma who probably has more issues than she can handle much less than you can handle and more likely just add to.
Or..... take some advice from some of these other guys and screw up her head an life more and avoid growing up for as long as you possibly can. History has proven that's a very productive tract for all involved especially those kids...
By the way, you get a half point for saying you are concerned about her. Now prove it by letting her go find a man that can handle what she and her kids need.
Or you could always completely wuss out and just point her to this thread.
Was this too harsh? Hey it could be worse. You could be a single mom with kids working in a burrito joint.

I'm shocked at the amount of "play with it until you're bored and then get a new toy" type of comments....actually, I guess I'm not shocked so much as I am disappointed. I suppose that there are indeed very few gentlemen left in the world.

So much ambiguity, hurt feelings, etc could be avoided if people would simply communicate. Talk to her, tell her what you said on here and see how she responds. Grow a vagina and express yourself.

I think I've gotten a lot of good advice. I don't want to sound gay but, I didn't know where else to ask, certainly not my friends. That would be disastrous. I really appreciate it.

 

[Cobalt 60]

So... there's this girl and I think I like her. We've been coworkers for a while now and I guess I always flirted with her but, I never really thought much of it. She was just a friend. Recently we started hanging out on the weekends and we've gotten really close and spent a couple of nights together. Everything was cool. One day she looked at me and asked me if I liked her and that she needed to know because she's 'been lied to so many times before'....and I couldn't answer it. Just couldn't. Like, wtf is wrong with me?! Of course, I like her. For some odd reason, I couldn't give her an answer full of certainty. I guess it's because that I never really considered my feelings towards her. The past few days, I haven't stopped thinking about her. I
can't. I want to, and I want to go back to the way things were before but, I can't. I've become so infatuated with her. She asked why I'm avoiding her and I don't know why. I like her but, I just hate relationships. They always hurt in the end and I know things won't last. Fwb is one thing, but every time I invest emotionally in someone I've gotten hurt. We're different ages and in different point in our lives so, there's no way things would work out. She has kids and I'm just a kid with little to no responsibilities. I'm not good enough for her. I work at a burrito joint and am just now starting college, three years after finishing high school. (Which reminds me orientation is tomorrow. Thanks odt, I almost forgot. Gotta set my alarm). This is sooo ridiculous. I know it can't last, I think that she realized that so, why can't I just tell her how I feel right now and enjoy it while it lasts? So, now it's midnight, I'm a little drunk and spent the last half of my shift avoiding her. And I'm considering posting all of this on the odt. Jeez, I'm pathetic. I guess I just want someone to tell me that I'm crazy or I don't know what. I just need some guy to guy adivice.

​Bypass?

 

[SuperMario92]

​Bypass?

He's cute, just not my type.

 

[SuperMario92]

I agree, tell her to send some naked pics and you'll take her out and even splurge for the supersize value meal

I'm not a high roller, I stick to the dollar menu.

 

[SuperMario92]

When she wanted to hang out last night I said, I wasn't allowed to bring home any more stray animals. She didn't think it was funny. Anyway, thanks for the advice and I'm just gonna go ahead and see if any mod will please delete this. I don't even know why I posted this, just had a lot of things to think about.

Bueller.. Bueller.. Bueller..

 

[Laufen]

it was no better or worse than yours.

lol