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What am I so afraid of?

Okay Gents (and any ladies present)
Let's put this another way.

Your WIDOW (i.e. you just died a period of time ago, leaving behind a wife and children) is reduced to working fast food and starts getting emotionally attached to a 21 year old boy (sorry dude, but at 21 you're really not quite there yet).

OR:

Your DAUGHTER who's husband died / left her, etc. is put in the same situation.

Do you really REALLY want your widow or daughter getting attached to a 21 year old? Do you REALLY want your young children / grandchildren getting attached to a 21 year old that will probably split? A 21 year old that doesn't love the woman or her children? Really? Do you want your children / grandchildren thinking that the relationship between men and women should be so shallow?

I'll throw down the Christian gauntlet and let the vitriolic responses begin: If you said yes (seriously) to the above then you are sick. You'll go in the black book of who to never trust with a gun, let alone a woman. You will reap what you sow, and I'll pray for those of you who have daughters.

Let the flaming begin!
 
Okay Gents (and any ladies present)
Let's put this another way.

Your WIDOW (i.e. you just died a period of time ago, leaving behind a wife and children) is reduced to working fast food and starts getting emotionally attached to a 21 year old boy (sorry dude, but at 21 you're really not quite there yet).

OR:

Your DAUGHTER who's husband died / left her, etc. is put in the same situation.

Do you really REALLY want your widow or daughter getting attached to a 21 year old? Do you REALLY want your young children / grandchildren getting attached to a 21 year old that will probably split? A 21 year old that doesn't love the woman or her children? Really? Do you want your children / grandchildren thinking that the relationship between men and women should be so shallow?

I'll throw down the Christian gauntlet and let the vitriolic responses begin: If you said yes (seriously) to the above then you are sick. You'll go in the black book of who to never trust with a gun, let alone a woman. You will reap what you sow, and I'll pray for those of you who have daughters.

Let the flaming begin!
Im confused.
 
Okay Gents (and any ladies present)
Let's put this another way.

Your WIDOW (i.e. you just died a period of time ago, leaving behind a wife and children) is reduced to working fast food and starts getting emotionally attached to a 21 year old boy (sorry dude, but at 21 you're really not quite there yet).

OR:

Your DAUGHTER who's husband died / left her, etc. is put in the same situation.

Do you really REALLY want your widow or daughter getting attached to a 21 year old? Do you REALLY want your young children / grandchildren getting attached to a 21 year old that will probably split? A 21 year old that doesn't love the woman or her children? Really? Do you want your children / grandchildren thinking that the relationship between men and women should be so shallow?

I'll throw down the Christian gauntlet and let the vitriolic responses begin: If you said yes (seriously) to the above then you are sick. You'll go in the black book of who to never trust with a gun, let alone a woman. You will reap what you sow, and I'll pray for those of you who have daughters.

Let the flaming begin!

I think that's an extreme but ok.
 
But was she older and with children. That's my point. You also chose to marry your wife. This fella is NOT interested in marriage. That's my point. If he was gonna go Super-Man / Super-Dad to this woman and her children I'd wish him luck and pray he got a good mentor. Since he's not interested in the long term he's doing more damage to her and her children.

And, as a veteran of the USA (13B), thank you for your service.
 
But was she older and with children. That's my point. You also chose to marry your wife. This fella is NOT interested in marriage. That's my point. If he was gonna go Super-Man / Super-Dad to this woman and her children I'd wish him luck and pray he got a good mentor. Since he's not interested in the long term he's doing more damage to her and her children.

And, as a veteran of the USA (13B), thank you for your service.
King of battle field artillery! Yes, I agree, throwing the children in the situation changes everything.
 
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