We recently sold our condo (all cash offer) and went under contract on another home way faster than expected. I truly didn't believe we would be under contract this fast for any home less than listing price, but it turns out that being flexible with our closing date and offering all closing costs were the main reasons the buyer went with us.
This market is insane as you're well aware, but coming in flexible with closing date to help the sellers find time for their next home/move as well as offering all closing costs helps the seller come out of pocket even less.
One issue to also consider is the appraisal. Currently we are awaiting our 2nd appraisal because our first appraisal came in $9k under our agreed purchase price with a "desktop appraisal" (Which is highway robbery). We were lucky enough to come to terms with the seller during due diligence that if the 2nd appraisal (new lender waived 2nd appraisal fee) comes in low again, we will be able to adjust the purchase price to reflect the 2nd appraisal. That could be good for us, but you need to consider if you're paying $10k+ over listing and the appraisal comes in significantly lower, you're stuck with the difference of what the lender believes your house is worth vs the agreed purchase price. Most sellers have so many offers on the table that the buyers have to decide to eat the cost or walk away.
TL;DR: Make a strong offer, but be flexible on closing date and offer to pay all closing costs. Be aware of paying over asking as your appraisal may not be near the amount you and the seller have agreed to purchase.
This market is insane as you're well aware, but coming in flexible with closing date to help the sellers find time for their next home/move as well as offering all closing costs helps the seller come out of pocket even less.
One issue to also consider is the appraisal. Currently we are awaiting our 2nd appraisal because our first appraisal came in $9k under our agreed purchase price with a "desktop appraisal" (Which is highway robbery). We were lucky enough to come to terms with the seller during due diligence that if the 2nd appraisal (new lender waived 2nd appraisal fee) comes in low again, we will be able to adjust the purchase price to reflect the 2nd appraisal. That could be good for us, but you need to consider if you're paying $10k+ over listing and the appraisal comes in significantly lower, you're stuck with the difference of what the lender believes your house is worth vs the agreed purchase price. Most sellers have so many offers on the table that the buyers have to decide to eat the cost or walk away.
TL;DR: Make a strong offer, but be flexible on closing date and offer to pay all closing costs. Be aware of paying over asking as your appraisal may not be near the amount you and the seller have agreed to purchase.