Lilgreg46, you were fired, because of your girl, IIRC? How's your work situation now? What field were you in? I know guys and gals here on OTD would LOVE to help you in this regard, if they could. I know I would, if I had anything fitting your skill set.
Great idea, Jeddak! I find myself thinking "if this were me"... and the only thing that might keep my mind healthy in this situation (after grieving) would be to throw myself into work...