Need help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[bigred1980]

BigRed - I sympathize with your situation and appreciate that you found someone you don't want to lose. But based on my limited knowledge of your situation (#1 she has no job, #2 you don't have a very good one if you are renting a room and cant afford to move, #3 she has the kind of financial or legal baggage that would prevent her from signing a lease, #4 you don't have a very understanding landlord) it sounds like you both need to put the relationship on the back burner and get yourselves sorted out first. You two aren't much good to each other if you cant or can barely take care of yourselves. I say this with no sarcasm and with the utmost sincerity as one who has been there. I think a lot of people on the ODT have probably been there too. You willingly make bad financial decision based on love but next thing you know youre knocking over a liquor store together on you way out of town wondering how it got this out of control.

Actually its a two bedroom apartment. Quite a nice one too. That is good advice though and I do appreciate it I just wanna try to find somewhere for her to go so she's not on the streets. Somewhere that can help her.

 

[Mr. Goodbar]

Actually its a two bedroom apartment. Quite a nice one too. That is good advice though and I do appreciate it I just wanna try to find somewhere for her to go so she's not on the streets. Somewhere that can help her.

So you share it with another person then?

 

[bearpugh]

contact your local dfacs. they should be able to help.

 

[fslc94]

A Leopards spots never change?

 

[Mr. Goodbar]

A Leopards spots never change?

I thought its a tiger never changes its stripes?

 

[bigred1980]

Yep..we need pics to accurately assess the situation

I know to some people like yourself this is a big joke but I'm trying to be serious here so as the old saying goes "if you have nothing good to say perhaps you shouldn't say anything at all".

 

[bigred1980]

So you share it with another person then?

No its my apartment in my name

 

[fslc94]

I thought its a tiger never changes its stripes?

That as well.

 

[bigred1980]

contact your local dfacs. they should be able to help.

good advice. thanks

 

[Mr. Goodbar]

No its my apartment in my name

Sorry just trying to understand the whole situation here