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Please don't thank me for my service???

If you really want to thank someone, thank the wives and family of those of us who served. Their sacrifice to support us on both sides of the pond is rarely recognized and deserves much more recognition and gratitude from a grateful nation.

This is so true, at least I knew where I was and what I was doing and that I was safe.
It was all unknows to my wife and family, unknowns are real tough!
 
Coming from a family that has served since at least WWII, I've never heard it aimed at my fmily nor have we expressed it vocally. Every now and then when I am able to surreptitiously flag a waitress down, I'll pick up their tab. In lines at stores, I'll let them ahead of me, hold the door for the old timers...that kind of thing. But I never go out of my way to vocalize it because I assumed it would be uncomfortable.

You did whatever you did for your own reasons. For me to "thank you" for that seems to make it more about me and less about you. "Welcome home, soldier/airman/sailor/marine." is my go to.
 
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Ran across this today. I have to say that I never gave much thought to a soldier taking it this way.

What say you ODT veterans and active duty?
never served but always thank a vet or currently serving..I cant even imagine what sacrifice had or have to be made all i can do is say thanks for my freedom,i would invite you to have a drink on me tell me your story...I learned this was the most important thing a civilian can do and learned it from vets and family do/ did sacrifice..so im confused...if I do good work daily and someone says thanks great job it makes me feel good,doenst take away or add any pain..and no vet should ever be embarrassed for what they did for our country..so Thank you and cheers!
 
Coming from a family that has served since at least WWII, I've never heard it aimed at my fmily nor have we expressed it vocally. Every now and then when I am able to surreptitiously flag a waitress down, I'll pick up their tab. In lines at stores, I'll let them ahead of me, hold the door for the old timers...that kind of thing. But I never go out of my way to vocalize it because I assumed it would be uncomfortable.

You did whatever you did for your own reasons. For me to "thank you" for that seems to make it more about me and less about you. "Welcome home, soldier/airman/sailor/marine." is my go to.
I'd be much more receptive to "welcome home" but I'm not always going home when in uniform.
 
I definitely like the idea of buying a serviceman/woman a meal or beer

I do this all the time and I am a veteran.
Whenever I see them in uniform in a restaurant.... I pay it anonymously .
I have the server just tell them, it is from an old Viet Nam veteran who understands and appreciates what they do.

When I am thanked, I respond, It was an honor and a privilege.
 
I do this all the time and I am a veteran.
Whenever I see them in uniform in a restaurant.... I pay it anonymously .
I have the server just tell them, it is from an old Viet Nam veteran who understands and appreciates what they do.

When I am thanked, I respond, It was an honor and a privilege.
Had a nam vet come up toe one day while I was eating and he said thanks. We got to talkn about how modern vets have it much better then they did when he came home. I paid his and his wife's tab anonymously before leaving.
 
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