Some people are beyond helping

[Miatadude]

Nothing from us. It was their lack of respect for our home. Dirty clothes and dishes everywhere, smoking pot in my house and we are both FAA employees, expecting us to take care of their dog, expecting to be paid for anything they did here like cleaning their own bathroom. When the "lady" told me that tonight, I asked her what was she paying for rent, food, medical, utilities and the $230 it cost me to bail her out last Friday when she was picked up on a license violation. I told her and the boyfriend that they were no longer welcomed in our home. This was just one of several episodes that have occurred since they have been here.

 

[letusbuyyourcar]

Nothing from us. It was their lack of respect for our home. Dirty clothes and dishes everywhere, smoking pot in my house and we are both FAA employees, expecting us to take care of their dog, expecting to be paid for anything they did here like cleaning their own bathroom. When the "lady" told me that tonight, I asked her what was she paying for rent, food, medical, utilities and the $230 it cost me to bail her out last Friday when she was picked up on a license violation. I told her and the boyfriend that they were no longer welcomed in our home. This was just one of several episodes that have occurred since they have been here.

What are their ages? I'm betting under 35.

 

[Miatadude]

You are correct. 28 and 29.

 

[Dallasdave]

I have some experience in this department, mine didn’t try to harm anyone but would take anything tat want securely fastened down. I later learned that they won’t hold them in my county for just theft, they had to be a danger to others

 

[Phydoux]

I have a bad feeling I may have to go through this with my older brother and my 21 year old nephew daddy dependent son.

And I was the black sheep of the family who wouldn’t amount to anything !

 

[ole ed]

What are their ages? I'm betting under 35.

Andrew Carnegie said you can't push someone up a ladder. They have to want to climb. My dad said" you can lead a house to water. But, you can't make him drink. However, you can shove the S.O.B.'s heads under water until he comes around to your way of thinking. If problems continue remember, if you build a man a fire he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire and he'll leave you alone.

 

[Glorfindel]

You tried helping. You did the best you could. It didn’t work out. No shame in that.

 

[Gingerbeard Man]

You did more than most would. Fortunately you made the right decision by not enabling their behavior.

 

[Phydoux]

And you definitely can’t fix stupid, but I know for a fact you can hire them.

 

[boneboy96]

I'm just glad that they haven't retaliated yet. Keep your guard up...they know what you have and will be willing to chance it. They obviously have nothing to lose. This is just my humble opinion....I've seen it numerous times.