For carry, I like the XDs. Can't wait to see them in .40 and 9mm. For home defense and showing, I have a Sig P220 Dark Elite that I'll never sell. Shoots better than I do. I've now got the bug for a shooter to keep in the truck (not what's generally known as a "truck gun". That conjures up a beater.) Anyway, I've been looking for an XD 45 with the thumb safety for months. I saw one on here but I'm a little light in the purse. The thumb safety models are getting real scarce and the XD is just a great shooter. If it's still here, I'm jumping on it after I raise a little more cash.
Go with the P220, you will love it.
Go with the P220, you will love it.