My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. words are not enough but turn to god and ask him to help. It works. My dad died 5 weeks ago on a Sunday afternoon and on Monday my wife got diagnosed with breast cancer. Just remember god always listen. It works he has changed my life completely.
I am also up for the donations just post where we can send it.
If anyone gets a PayPal or other Information for a Donation please PM me. I hate to bother him with PM right now Unless it is for sale of his items. I would imagine he has his hands full.