A friend had a 12 year old daughter who decided she could smart off to her parents. His wife must not have fussed much but he told the daughter it wasn't happening with him. They had cats that they were trying to train with a spray bottle of water and one day, when that daughter started mouthing off to him, he sprayed her in the face several times. He got a volcano of a crying fit and she ran off to her room. Next day, the same thing happened and he sprayed her again. He finally told the daughter she was going to get sprayed in the face for the disrespect or he would start using the garden hose. He said things started to improve at that point. A fairly unique way of handling it.Patience of Job is needed for parenting.
