I think that's the problem with most of the collet pullers, especially with something like 9mm or .40 S&W. You have to have enough surface area to grip the bullet, which is why kinetic pullers work best for me (I reload mostly handgun ammo).You'll end up with a press-mounted one too. The RCBS one (for your press), that uses the collets, well, it works for some things and on some it just can't pull them. (Lead TC bullets in like .40 S&W? Forget about it.... not happening. So if there is a better press-mounted puller suggestion, buy it over the RCBS.
There's a minimalistic thingy for your press too. Remove the die, and it's basically just a pair of pliers you use to grab the bullet, then pull the handle to pull the case away from the bullet. I have two of them, and they don't grip the bullet tight enough to work for me. Vise-grips do the same thing, though they destroy the bullet.
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