I talked to a guy that worked at gamestop yesterday and said the online thing wasn't a big deal that if you didn't get online everyday when you did get back online it would catch up like when your xbox does the random updates from time to time. But that would still suck having to just wait everytime you get online.
That's how the PS3 works. Mine seems to update way too much and it takes way too long. Can't get online until you update. Wouldn't be bad if it didn't take so damned long each time. It's really annoying.