Thoughts on Marriage.

[greg vess]

I've never heard such a sad group of beta males in my life, letting women push them around and break their tender little hearts. Good Lord men, get a hold of yourselves and have some self respect. If you can't tame your women you only have your self to blame for being a wimp.

I took control! I left and didn't look back. You try and take control a red head! You obviously have never dated one. You will wake up looking at her holding a butcher knife in one hand and your severed johnson in the other! Um hum!!!!!

 

[Cruisers460]

Not worth it anymore. Sorry.

The modern woman comes with six digit figures of debt, high body count, insufferable and demanding, can't cook, can't clean, no respect, too many issues and traumas, they makes terrible mothers and wives, no bedroom fun once you marry, if there's a divorce 80% chance she initiates it.

If you get divorced, you're the bad guy, you'll lose a minimum of half of your stuff, and if it's kids involved, they'll be weaponized against you.

The risk is not worth the reward.

I wish it wasn't this way.

Obviously I think marriage is great, been married 47 years. Not to one woman though! If I had met my second wife first I might have been 47 with one, just passed 29 with her, And I have met the woman you describe several times, fortunately never hooked up with one like that! Friends and family knew her well, had a couple of flashbacks of near misses reading these posts.

 

[Ken Ford]

I took control! I left and didn't look back. You try and take control a red head! You obviously have never dated one. You will wake up looking at her holding a butcher knife in one hand and your severed johnson in the other! Um hum!!!!!

Both of my loves have been redheads.
Both of them are/were the sweetest kindest women I’ve ever met.

 

[Fatal_Bert]

I took control! I left and didn't look back. You try and take control a red head! You obviously have never dated one. You will wake up looking at her holding a butcher knife in one hand and your severed johnson in the other! Um hum!!!!!

I always tried to stay away from women with red flags, some red flags are hard to see so I can sympathize with some situations. Red heads are a walking talking red flag. No sympathy, you were asking for it from the start.

 

[jonsmith6391]

Been 9 months. 4.5 of them seemed like two or more years, the nights were crushing.
But Kim wanted me to move on, even telling me to meet someone before she passed… (no I don’t fall for that one. LOL

But I never thought I’d find one that would put with me.

I got a ton of respect for you, Ken. I would never shame someone for moving on after the passing of their spouse, no matter how “quickly” people may perceive it. I recall reading your posts about her and you absolutely loved that woman dearly and, truly, you are honoring her selflessness and love for you.

I know of a lady who was married and her husband died suddenly (collapsed at their son’s baseball game and passed). Within a year, maybe less, she met someone who (I think) was a widower. She never intended to meet anyone so quickly, but the Lord was so good to bring her someone new in such a divine way, and it makes my heart happy to see people find love again after the love of their life has passed away.

Best wishes to you and your fiancé!

 

[Ken Ford]

I got a ton of respect for you, Ken. I would never shame someone for moving on after the passing of their spouse, no matter how “quickly” people may perceive it. I recall reading your posts about her and you absolutely loved that woman dearly and, truly, you are honoring her selflessness and love for you.

I know of a lady who was married and her husband died suddenly (collapsed at their son’s baseball game and passed). Within a year, maybe less, she met someone who (I think) was a widower. She never intended to meet anyone so quickly, but the Lord was so good to bring her someone new in such a divine way, and it makes my heart happy to see people find love again after the love of their life has passed away.

Best wishes to you and your fiancé!

Thank you.
She is a widow, of about two years when we met. Everything just aligned for us to even meet, never really knew her although we live just 8 minutes from each other.

To all of you who say you can’t or won’t find a good woman, just remember: you have to be someone that is actually ready to be married, and not just living in the same house, with benefits.

 

[Ken Ford]

I always tried to stay away from women with red flags, some red flags are hard to see so I can sympathize with some situations. Red heads are a walking talking red flag. No sympathy, you were asking for it from the start.

No, the red flags were always there. You just choose to ignore them until the lust wears off.

Red heads are more passionate, in every way. If you are fortunate enough you will find this out first hand. But don’t do them dirty, they respond passionately to that as well.

 

[41mag]

Me and my ole lady have been at it a while. These seizures screw with my memory a good bit so I have to figure it out as far as exact numbers. But we got married in 89 I think ….. our daughter was born in 88 so I know we were screwing around a good bit in 87 (?) ….. if that makes any sense ?? 🤣 LMAO

But we were loyal to each other from the start. But as far as marriage years I would have to look at exact dates ….. I do know I love her and ain’t going anywhere. And she feels the same about me I am sure. 😁
Lol

 

[OttoMan]

I’m sure that in the 49 years my wife and I have been married she’s wanted to several times!

Sleep with one eye open........

The $65K question is : Who is preparing the food?

There you have it: She still have your life on her power of decision whether to kill you or let you live!

 

[basstracker89]

The $65K question is : Who is preparing the food?

There you have it: She still have your life on her power of decision whether to kill you or let you live!

You ain't wrong........