Oh yeah women that are attentive and attractive will win over a man's wallet in a heartbeat. I find myself doing that.Man when I worked as a bouncer I had a server who was let's say, diminutive in stature, about 4' 5" & 95lbs. She looked twelve but was 22 years old. The ****ing creepwads I had to scare off numbered in the dozens. She made excellent tips though.