Have you thought about one of the older 3rd gen Smith and Wesson pistols? They soak up recoil well and have hammers and visible safety/decocking levers and the single stacks like a 3913 or 908 might be a good fit for her hand. http://www.gunbroker.com/item/701294568 http://www.gunbroker.com/item/699690677
is the Price here on GB fair ? or can it be found at a low price. ?