It’s a lousy situation to be sure… but my experience with it is a little different.
I was your sibling about 25 years ago but without the theft and job hopping. But, I wasn’t exactly dependable, trustworthy or honest. Regardless, my ultra successful brother (older) eventually gave up and focused on his own life. So did my sister and many friends…
Ultimately, I got my life together and quit using things designed to hurt me while making me feel “better”. Without the enabling, I was left with 2 choices… go on and die or change things. I wouldn’t have gotten to that point had people kept bailing me out of my problems.
I have an amazing relationship with both of them today. So… you will do more good by cutting ties and moving on with your life. If they ever get their **** together, re evaluate
I was your sibling about 25 years ago but without the theft and job hopping. But, I wasn’t exactly dependable, trustworthy or honest. Regardless, my ultra successful brother (older) eventually gave up and focused on his own life. So did my sister and many friends…
Ultimately, I got my life together and quit using things designed to hurt me while making me feel “better”. Without the enabling, I was left with 2 choices… go on and die or change things. I wouldn’t have gotten to that point had people kept bailing me out of my problems.
I have an amazing relationship with both of them today. So… you will do more good by cutting ties and moving on with your life. If they ever get their **** together, re evaluate