Need help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[bigred1980]

Man I just want you to know that I don't want anything bad to happen to you and that is the only reason I am about to say what I am about to say. DRUGS AND GUNS AND A WOMAN WITH A TEMPER DO NOT MIX. Trust me!!! I didn't know her issues were with drugs... you need to get her into a rehab NOW while she is vulnerable because of not having a place to go. Give her an ultimatum, if she can complete treatment (which will give you enough time to get the money up to move) then you two can build a life together... if not then tell her to kick rocks. She might be a good person but you don't want to end up on the bad end of a drug fueled domestic dispute that could end your life with one of your own guns... you might say "it will never happen to me she is too good of a person" but stuff like this happens EVERYDAY to people who never even see it coming. I am not saying that she is a monster but people that are on drugs don't have the best judgment and are loose cannons. GET HER INTO REHAB IF YOU REALLY CARE FOR HER!!!

I'm gonna. I just told her if she wants to build a life with me that she has to do it. Only thing is I gotta find one where she can work off her treatment costs. Thanks BIGDAWG.

 

[bigred1980]

Best advise on here by far! She's gotta hit rock bottom before she's going to get help. Worst case, get her baker acted and she will have no choice but to complete rehab. She might hate you but atleast you'll be able to sleep knowing she's in a treatment place she can't walk out of

True.

 

[MilSpec308]

I wish you the best of luck and I'll pray for you both. Tough situation to be in

 

[DogLegArms]

I think you have this figured out. Man to man, always protect yourself. When you have a family that will change but for now as single guy it's true.

 

[BIGDAWG22]

http://www.freerehabcenters.org/state/georgia There are plenty of places that will take her for free. Google is your best friend in times like these.... I wish you the very best... you need to get up this way so that we can shoot sometime... the wife is having a baby in less than two months so I have been busy with work and not able to be on ODT as much as I would like.... PM me and keep me posted man and if there is anything I can do just holler at me.... it might be good for you to come up here and get away for a day!!!

 

[bearpugh]

if she doesn't want to deal with this there's nothing you can do. you can love her, but she'll only give you a life of torment.

 

[hikingthehills]

Come on man really

Sorry man, still wasn't sure if this was a real thread or not at the time. I'll pray for yall. Wished there was something I could do to help but I'm hardly keeping my head above water myself. Good luck man.

 

[Hayata]

Where is she getting money for drugs?

Are you giving her money to buy drugs?

 

[bigred1980]

I wish you the best of luck and I'll pray for you both. Tough situation to be in

Thank u

 

[bigred1980]

I think you have this figured out. Man to man, always protect yourself. When you have a family that will change but for now as single guy it's true.

I hear ya thanks for the advice