Welcome club member! We have hats!I’m 45 with a about to be 6 year old son in 7 days. I was late to the game. It’s been a huge and sometimes very stressful adjustment not having a child until almost 40 years of age, but I wouldn’t change it. He has taught me a lot about me. I think God sent him to me to save me. Love em as much as you can. It goes by so damn fast.